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Ahleckz · 3 Nov 2017 at 18:35

OP, how would you feel if your wife had made out with someone when you were away? Could you forgive her? Would you want her to tell you?
That's your answer!

TallPaul1878 said:
I was recently sleeping with an older woman whilst her husband was working away.

The relationship has since ended but she persists with sending me messages on What's App and trying to arrange a hotel break away.

I just want all this to end, I think she has fallen in love with, it's a total disaster.

No you don't. You would have deleted her number and blocked it if you wanted it to end.

Edit - this is obviously a joke from reading the thread but I totally don't get it?!

Jimmeh · 3 Nov 2017 at 18:37

Take it from someone who knows, keep stum.

TallPaul1878 · 3 Nov 2017 at 19:20

Ahleckz said:
OP, how would you feel if your wife had made out with someone when you were away? Could you forgive her? Would you want her to tell you?
That's your answer!

No you don't. You would have deleted her number and blocked it if you wanted it to end.

Edit - this is obviously a joke from reading the thread but I totally don't get it?!

Here fishy fishy fishy

bainbridge · 3 Nov 2017 at 20:35

1: Delete thread
2: It never happened
3: Fantasize every now and again

darkgen · 3 Nov 2017 at 20:39

Reading OP;
Delete the thread and shrug it off as a moment of silliness. It happened. It went to first base and your integrity eventually kicked in and you removed yourself from the situation. You're OK; you passed, forget it. End of.

Terminel · 3 Nov 2017 at 22:35

Had a similar thing happen to me many years back and was in similar circumstances to you.

America, just outside Dallas. Work trip. Bad patch with the wife (still together - and love her to bits). One thing led to another and **** happened. Plus some other ****. It kicked off. Boss (who was on the trip) got warned that if I came back I may get shot (no Joke). Guilt, remorse kicked in. Feelings fade (will for you too). Look back on it with the opinion 'wow, that was a crazy two weeks' but I can never tell anyone I know.

What I am trying to say is that we are all human. Mistakes happen, no one died, you had (at the time) fun, you will move on and get over it.

A wise women said (the cause above) **** happens.

Seemed wise at the time - damn you budweiser.

Akagi · 4 Nov 2017 at 02:28

Please rewrite the above when sober.

Sayso · 4 Nov 2017 at 02:56

dont tell your missus ffs you have done nothing wrong.

ricky1981 · 4 Nov 2017 at 07:51

If it meant something then I'd suggest you work out what and then go from there. If it was just a drunken kiss that you regret then bury it and move on. If you tell your missus then you are making it a big deal so only do that if you think it is.