I think the biggest problem is that those two extremes, although tiny minorities, are the most vocal.I'm not sure which group I despise more.
The (admittedly small number of) extreme SJW types who post constant recreational offence taking, or...
The (also thankfully small number of) anti-SJW 'right wing' hacks making a buck off the terminally offended right wing idiots who hate the above group.
Clearly the OP has spent too long listen to the likes of Jordan Peterson (an idiots impression of a wise man), David Rubin (a hack monetising right wing offence) & Shapiro (religious demagogue masquerading as free speech warrior).