Our little one doesn't like being put in a cot and wants to be close to his mum to sleep, and a lot of the time he will nod off after breastfeeding, sleeping on his mum. Which means that she can't sleep then. This is why we're trying the bed-sharing...
I wouldn't normally respond to a thread like this but you did ask and my wife used to say things like your comment above.
The baby is too young to dislike a cot. Your projecting that thought onto them and they'll quickly get used to whatever routine you put in place. Of course they like getting cuddled to sleep but if you don't get them into a moses basket or cot now, you're making a rod for your own back later.
Get them into their own bed and put them in it when they're sleeping. It's nice to hold them when they're sleeping but try not to do it too much and certainly not at night when you should be getting some kip. You guys will sleep better for it as well.
I'd also say get them onto bottles ASAP. Breast feeding is a nightmare and makes it really difficult to establish a routine at the start as you don't know what their taking.
I've got two kids by the way and both slept through the night in their own beds almost right from the start. They were also fed on formula from the start and both are healthy and do well in school It's not held them back.
It's the breast fed ones that are all mental.
All that said, you just need to wing it a bit for the first couple of weeks. Good luck!
