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I've a Welsh mate called Gareth, Garth is a hugger and a kisser, has been since the second time I ever met him. he's like this with all his male mates, women all get hugs and kisses on the cheek. Doesn't bother his missus or his other male mates.

Does it bother me? it was odd to start with but it's the way he is so now, I don't bat an eyelid. If you want it to stop feeling weird, embrace it and do it back.
 
AHarvey said:
I've a Welsh mate called Gareth, Garth is a hugger and a kisser, has been since the second time I ever met him. he's like this with all his male mates, women all get hugs and kisses on the cheek. Doesn't bother his missus or his other male mates.

Does it bother me? it was odd to start with but it's the way he is so now, I don't bat an eyelid. If you want it to stop feeling weird, embrace it and do it back.
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It's known as The Celtic Pecker. Steady now!
 
Lol you guys never fail to entertain. I am in a pickle though. The lady in question told me she loved me last night and that the only people that know about it was her, myself and her husband. Bearing in mind I haven't encouraged anything, I'm left wondering what the end result of this is going to be? Many, no doubt will find this amusing, but on a more serious note, there are children and families likely to be hurt on both sides. I don't even know how this has occurred and I'm likely not going to talk to the Mrs about it because people, including her, are going to get hurt. Surely I'm not the only one on this forum who this may have happened to?
Edit: with regards to my male friends, I can't be bothered how they kiss me at the moment because I'm having incredible difficulty trying to understand the dilemma with regards to the rest.
 
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Honestly I haven't cheated. She told me what I've said in the previous post on a night out with both me and the Mrs. I'm scared because I can't deny there is chemistry. I also love my wife and she is as innocent as me. I can't for the life of me understand why the lady in question had to tell her husband about her feelings towards me when the situation is one in which nothing has happened? I'm lucky he hasn't turned up to punch my lights out. All I've seen thus far is him turning up to greet her, give her roses and letting everybody in the place she works know he "loves her"?
This must have been at the time she told him about her feelings for me. I really didn't have a clue as to what was going on, just a sneaky suspicion something wasn't right.

If my Mrs finds out about this then ? I can't even believe this is happening. I've only ever seen these things on TV. It would probably go a lot easier on me if my mate could give me a good tonguing- which he has been known to do on other people, in front of the Mrs, than any of this -even though I'm not gay.

What the hell must she have been thinking telling me the only three that know about her feelings, are myself, her and her husband? Is this supposed to make me feel better? Aren't there any women on this forum who can help me out with an explanation-or at least other forum members who have ever experienced anything similar? I can't believe I'm the only one?
 
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Post #56 makes it sound like a troll thread now. But if not, just smash otherwise you'll keep getting awkward stiffies in public when she hugs you.
 
ethan said:
Lol you guys never fail to entertain. I am in a pickle though. The lady in question told me she loved me last night and that the only people that know about it was her, myself and her husband.
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And this public forum...

If you felt this was all ok, and in-case this isn't some troll fantasy thread, then you would have already told your wife already.

Regardless of the internal relationship of this other couple and motivation towards the behaviour to you, walk away and put some distance between you all.

You are already allowing feelings and interest to develop towards the intention.
 
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