You inhabit a strange world where Irans actions are a series of unprovoked attacks on the US.
And everything the US does is retaliation for unprovoked Iranian attacks.
It's a way of looking at things which stems from a belief that one side is always in the right and the other side is always in the wrong.
Do you feel that way about, say, the Troubles? Was one side continually launching unprovoked attacks the other side justly retaliating against unprovoked attacks?
Who started it in other words, it's your fault etc
I've only read to the 1950's when Britain wanted the majority share in the Anglo-Persian oil company but Iran refused telling them/us where to go. Then huge wave of sanctions came down on Iran after that tit for tat. The US embassy seige, the Lebanon base bombing, the downed Iranian airliner etc and now nukes.