Deleted User 298457
Deleted User 298457
That's a bit harsh, she must have good points.
made me lol on a career limiting callThat's a bit harsh, she must have good points.
made me lol on a career limiting callFeels like an excuse, there must be solutions that allow you to take control of it without depending on family.
How about hiring a van for a day, or paying a company to take care of it e.g. https://www.clearabee.co.uk/
yeap add to that the inlaws dieing and now we have majority of there house contents gives me 3 rooms full of boxes furniture etc a large single garage / converted to shed full and part of my car garage...loft dont talk to me about the loftWe're not hoarders in the sense of keeping everything but overtime(42yrs of marriage, 2 house moves, a flood and an extention built around the same time, renovating the house you just accumulate things. This is just reality for us, I'm trying to get rooms sorted but get very little help from her, that I can't be bothered. Health issues also slows me down.
oh and 44 years hehe
Just made a start on reboarding the loft for storage/ hobby. Boards that are down are over 35 yrs old square edge chipboard and are beginning to bow a bit. Need to get new joists and beams to hang them on.yeap add to that the inlaws dieing and now we have majority of there house contents gives me 3 rooms full of boxes furniture etc a large single garage / converted to shed full and part of my car garage...loft dont talk to me about the loftoh and 44 years hehe
Just binned 6 broken salt and pepper mills - Kept them just in case ????

Just took 17 years worth of old PC Gamer magazines down to the tip.
Kept them up until now, intending to one day look back on the good old days of pc gaming, but obviously never happened and were just taking up space.
Just binned 6 broken salt and pepper mills - Kept them just in case ????
In our house we are enablers. I have tools and wood and electronic and music stuff. She has crafts and art and tools and decor stuff. There's some synergy in sharing tools for hobbies and what we have in common is an awful lot of unfinished projectsThe problem I have with decluttering my other half's stuff is I have a huge amount of DIY tools, equipment, parts etc before I even consider my computer kit. All of this takes up more space than her stuff even though I tidy and bin my unlikely to be needed items regularly.

Just binned 6 broken salt and pepper mills - Kept them just in case ????
Wife is out shopping and took a big bag of stuff to charity shop.
I am now about to attack cupboards above built in double oven.
Just doing bits at a time certainly gets rid of stuff as it's a pain trying to do it all at once..