My crashing on exit seems to have stopped for now. If it crashes now it's usually down to some mod issue.
@Terminal_Boy how does yours run on an i5 2500K?

I found that this game needs 32GB as it quickly goes over 16GB system usage. I do need to reboot my PC sometimes as Windows slowly keeps all the RAM until the game needs to use swap file and get slow framerates.
I've pretty much finished the DLC. I've now gone down the modding rabbit hole. It's a shame because mod support comes and goes as the game is actually nearly 5 years old and patching can sometimes break mods, which may not be supported anymore. If only they had supported the mods in a way that didn't break them with patches. The third person mod looks good, but I royally messed up as my V's arms started to behave strangely, more like legs lol so I'll fix that later.
DLSS struggles the most when NPCs are talking, their faces tend to blur, not really an issue of this game though, unless it's using an out of date DLSS version?
The plot/story is confusing to the point of I have literally no idea what they're talk about half the time and making me to choose between 2 big plot points seems forced for replay value, I prefer the smaller gang/crime/cyberpsychos missions, I think there are more mods for those as well.
I do like the game in terms of setting a new high bar in how games can look with path tracing etc, even with the glitches/shortcuts they had to pull to get it to run fast enough.