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Soldato
This made me rage the most out of the whole conversation.
Rishy: Those things between your legs, they are called balls. Its time to engage them.
Its a pretty terrible situation to be in mate. Don't forgive her, she will see you as a wet blanket and walk over you (more) for the rest of your life.
Do what's right for your daughter, cut the misses no slack and split.
Soldato
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Don't assume you'll lose custody.
Change locks on the door, bag up her stuff and take it to her mothers. Get a solicitor and begin divorce proceedings and pursuing custody.
Looks like the OP is now descending into wet lettuce territory. Quite upsetting to see what men have been reduced to in this day and age.
Don't ever EVER ... EVER try and hang onto something because you are too weak to face life alone without that person. I don't know you but I swear I'm going to come and b*tch slap you the next time you text her trying to beg forgiveness for HER going off to get a knee shaker by another man.
LEAVE NOW
GO AND GET AN STD TEST (NO I'M NOT KIDDING)
START RESEARCHING DIVORCE
You are now in the pathetic stage of a breakup where you will probably do anything to stay with the person who has utterly rejected you. The drinking, the begging ... this is probably close to your emotional bottom.
It's time to be a man.
Don't ever EVER ... EVER try and hang onto something because you are too weak to face life alone without that person. I don't know you but I swear I'm going to come and b*tch slap you the next time you text her trying to beg forgiveness for HER going off to get a knee shaker by another man.
LEAVE NOW
GO AND GET AN STD TEST (NO I'M NOT KIDDING)
START RESEARCHING DIVORCE
You are now in the pathetic stage of a breakup where you will probably do anything to stay with the person who has utterly rejected you. The drinking, the begging ... this is probably close to your emotional bottom.
It's time to be a man.
Soldato
After reading that text my eyes are a blood shot mess.
I fik u shd get rid of her.
I fik u shd get rid of her.
Soldato
the answer to all this, is in this thread........somewhere
fink*
Soldato
The story so far.
on the sunday night we talked said that there is no trust and that how did i get the message, i blagged it to say that i put a temporary password in her phone when she passed her phone to me. Not telling her that the software was still on there.
That night, i was so upset and drank 1/2 lt of vodka because if i did get it all wrong ive spoilt everything, or what if it was right and she has been cheating on me. and went to sleep about 2am
She went to work on the monday at 4am, i woke up about 5am just couldnt sleep
Cant write any more just to upset at the moment
Went down stairs and started texting her saying im sorry for sccusing her and forgive me, lets move forward from this and work something out. And that saying that i still love her.
But then my curiosity said lets she whats she doing has she contacted him again ??
Well
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on the phone for over two hours to him
i then looked at the texts messages
that night he text back saying
Wots happnd? Y u bein lyk that
and in the morning i can see all my text messages and more from him and her saying
one the text i send was
I love you and will never stop loving you and don't know what I would do with out you in my life I know it was not love at first site for you but I will do anything to stay with you
and she forwarded my text to him and the reply was (W wife / C Cheater)
Well that night we were talking and and it lead in to what we would do if we split up and i said split and go out separate ways and what to do with our daugter and said i dont know(C)
Wot u mean it was luv at first sight for me maybe nt for u. It was lyk a movie this gorgus girl walks in and is walkin towards me my hearts beatin n i fink im in a dream abt to faint.
(C)
Meanin fink before u talk n watch wot u say
(W)
I neva sent that msg tramp he sent it to me just now lol
(C)
Oh i fought u sed that to me n u was jokin. Lol. Say buy me a g6 jet then or jump of a cliff lol
(C)
Lol
(C)
Im being serious
(C)
Was it luv at first sight for u
(W)
No
(C)
So am i either way ur rich
(W)
Wt shall i do. What do u think i should do now
(W)
What u on bot
(C)
Im on abt wen did u knw u luvd me? Talk to ur mom see wot she says. Wiv him talk n see wot the options r in terms wot u gna do wiv DAUGHTER, if u sell up or kip the house, wot to do 1st n wen? Or do u jus stay as it is
(W)
He wants to stay together n fix it. I knew i lovednu straight away. What shall i do.
She then went on saying i earn enough to take over the house and that for me to move out and when i asked about our daughter she said stay with me and i wont stop you seeing her. and she said you can carry on picking her up from nusery and scholl till i get back from work, which is less then 2 hours a day, i then said that ive been with her every day of her life and tossed it to her saying that if you saw her 2 hours a day would you be happy her reply " Thats not going to happen"
Damn bro How old is your daughter?
Soldato
This and do it immediately do not let her make the first move.
Soldato
"Get a solicitor and begin divorce proceedings and pursuing custody"
I meant this more specifically
I meant this more specifically
Associate
I'd talk to the solicitor first and explain everything to them, and listen to their advice as acting rashly at this stage may well have a detrimental affect on your legal standing in a custody battle.
In short - lawyer up first.
Still can't get over grown adults texting each other with that stupid "text speak" nonsense. Seriously who does that??
Anyway - it's all over - you can't trust her, she will never trust you. Time to sort out the next stage in your life, which doesn't involve her.
The trust has gone - the moment she cheated on you, and the moment you started spying on her.
Anyway - it's all over - you can't trust her, she will never trust you. Time to sort out the next stage in your life, which doesn't involve her.
The trust has gone - the moment she cheated on you, and the moment you started spying on her.
Soldato
Me too. Strong indicator of being common as muck!
Soldato
You are a nobleman Rishy!
Get rid of this peasant and her man whore servitor!
ILLUMINATE THEM! Join your fellow battle brothers!
Get rid of this peasant and her man whore servitor!
ILLUMINATE THEM! Join your fellow battle brothers!
Soldato
I know, even if she wasn't cheating I would still divorce her for that. As somebody else has said you can't kick her out of the house as it's as much hers as yours.
Soldato
WTF is that language in those texts? Jesus Christ.........
You need to get rid, get a divorce and move on - It will probably be one of the hardest things you will ever have to do in your life, and you have my sympathy but you simply can not stay with her.
She cheated on you, thats a positive for you in the eyes of the law, if you earn more and the house is yours that also a bonus........
You need to get rid, get a divorce and move on - It will probably be one of the hardest things you will ever have to do in your life, and you have my sympathy but you simply can not stay with her.
She cheated on you, thats a positive for you in the eyes of the law, if you earn more and the house is yours that also a bonus........
Man of Honour
This thread is exactly why I don't watch soaps...
Soldato
Should find out where this bloke lives and poo on his chest!
A man willingly messing with another mans Wife \o/.
Bro code never existed did it
A man willingly messing with another mans Wife \o/.
Bro code never existed did it