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Yeah, it's all a bit too NSA-esque !
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I get the feeling the op was a copy and paste from another forum. The guy is from Wolverhampton and uses the word 'mom'.
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The story so far.
on the sunday night we talked said that there is no trust and that how did i get the message, i blagged it to say that i put a temporary password in her phone when she passed her phone to me. Not telling her that the software was still on there.
That night, i was so upset and drank 1/2 lt of vodka because if i did get it all wrong ive spoilt everything, or what if it was right and she has been cheating on me. and went to sleep about 2am
She went to work on the monday at 4am, i woke up about 5am just couldnt sleep
Cant write any more just to upset at the moment
Went down stairs and started texting her saying im sorry for sccusing her and forgive me, lets move forward from this and work something out. And that saying that i still love her.
But then my curiosity said lets she whats she doing has she contacted him again ??
Well
XXXXXX (+447XXXXXXXX) 01:84:00 Outgoing Mon Mar 10 04:45:43 GMT+00:00 2014
on the phone for over two hours to him
i then looked at the texts messages
that night he text back saying
Wots happnd? Y u bein lyk that
and in the morning i can see all my text messages and more from him and her saying
one the text i send was
I love you and will never stop loving you and don't know what I would do with out you in my life I know it was not love at first site for you but I will do anything to stay with you
and she forwarded my text to him and the reply was (W wife / C Cheater)
Well that night we were talking and and it lead in to what we would do if we split up and i said split and go out separate ways and what to do with our daugter and said i dont know
She then went on saying i earn enough to take over the house and that for me to move out and when i asked about our daughter she said stay with me and i wont stop you seeing her. and she said you can carry on picking her up from nusery and scholl till i get back from work, which is less then 2 hours a day, i then said that ive been with her every day of her life and tossed it to her saying that if you saw her 2 hours a day would you be happy her reply " Thats not going to happen"
on the sunday night we talked said that there is no trust and that how did i get the message, i blagged it to say that i put a temporary password in her phone when she passed her phone to me. Not telling her that the software was still on there.
That night, i was so upset and drank 1/2 lt of vodka because if i did get it all wrong ive spoilt everything, or what if it was right and she has been cheating on me. and went to sleep about 2am
She went to work on the monday at 4am, i woke up about 5am just couldnt sleep
Cant write any more just to upset at the moment
Went down stairs and started texting her saying im sorry for sccusing her and forgive me, lets move forward from this and work something out. And that saying that i still love her.
But then my curiosity said lets she whats she doing has she contacted him again ??
Well
XXXXXX (+447XXXXXXXX) 01:84:00 Outgoing Mon Mar 10 04:45:43 GMT+00:00 2014
on the phone for over two hours to him
i then looked at the texts messages
that night he text back saying
Wots happnd? Y u bein lyk that
and in the morning i can see all my text messages and more from him and her saying
one the text i send was
I love you and will never stop loving you and don't know what I would do with out you in my life I know it was not love at first site for you but I will do anything to stay with you
and she forwarded my text to him and the reply was (W wife / C Cheater)
(C)
Wot u mean it was luv at first sight for me maybe nt for u. It was lyk a movie this gorgus girl walks in and is walkin towards me my hearts beatin n i fink im in a dream abt to faint.
(C)
Meanin fink before u talk n watch wot u say
(W)
I neva sent that msg tramp he sent it to me just now lol
(C)
Oh i fought u sed that to me n u was jokin. Lol. Say buy me a g6 jet then or jump of a cliff lol
(C)
Lol
(C)
Im being serious
(C)
Was it luv at first sight for u
(W)
No
(C)
So am i either way ur rich
(W)
Wt shall i do. What do u think i should do now
(W)
What u on bot
(C)
Im on abt wen did u knw u luvd me? Talk to ur mom see wot she says. Wiv him talk n see wot the options r in terms wot u gna do wiv DAUGHTER, if u sell up or kip the house, wot to do 1st n wen? Or do u jus stay as it is
(W)
He wants to stay together n fix it. I knew i lovednu straight away. What shall i do.
Wot u mean it was luv at first sight for me maybe nt for u. It was lyk a movie this gorgus girl walks in and is walkin towards me my hearts beatin n i fink im in a dream abt to faint.
(C)
Meanin fink before u talk n watch wot u say
(W)
I neva sent that msg tramp he sent it to me just now lol
(C)
Oh i fought u sed that to me n u was jokin. Lol. Say buy me a g6 jet then or jump of a cliff lol
(C)
Lol
(C)
Im being serious
(C)
Was it luv at first sight for u
(W)
No
(C)
So am i either way ur rich
(W)
Wt shall i do. What do u think i should do now
(W)
What u on bot
(C)
Im on abt wen did u knw u luvd me? Talk to ur mom see wot she says. Wiv him talk n see wot the options r in terms wot u gna do wiv DAUGHTER, if u sell up or kip the house, wot to do 1st n wen? Or do u jus stay as it is
(W)
He wants to stay together n fix it. I knew i lovednu straight away. What shall i do.
She then went on saying i earn enough to take over the house and that for me to move out and when i asked about our daughter she said stay with me and i wont stop you seeing her. and she said you can carry on picking her up from nusery and scholl till i get back from work, which is less then 2 hours a day, i then said that ive been with her every day of her life and tossed it to her saying that if you saw her 2 hours a day would you be happy her reply " Thats not going to happen"
As do most people in Wolverhampton, what's you point?
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How about you have the house and the daughter lives with you?! Does having evidence that your spouse has been unfaithful count for anything in divorce proceedings?
Whatever, it's a very messy situation. Don't let her take the pee with access to your daughter. Fathers for justice!!
Whatever, it's a very messy situation. Don't let her take the pee with access to your daughter. Fathers for justice!!
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You really need to catch them in bed.
I know a couple where the wife cheated on her husband, and had a baby with the new man. He couldn't prove that they had done the deed and file for adultery, even though they'd had a newborn together.
It depends how long the OP and his wife have been together. He's looking at going with "unreasonable behaviour", at this point.
I've no faith in the judicial system and the OP hasn't exactly obtained the evidence by legitimate means
You really need to catch them in bed.
I know a couple where the wife cheated on her husband, and had a baby with the new man. He couldn't prove that they had done the deed and file for adultery, even though they'd had a newborn together.
It depends how long the OP and his wife have been together. He's looking at going with "unreasonable behaviour", at this point.
I've no faith in the judicial system and the OP hasn't exactly obtained the evidence by legitimate means
Well she want to go to her moms this weekend and ive got a feeling that she will she him and i will be there hiding to see this and take photos.
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Time to change your regular pastie for another flavour.
i couldn't really follow the teenage teen speak very well, but is the **** asking to keep living in the family home with your daughter and wants you to pay for it?
How long before she moves Dirk Diggler in once you're gone?
Jeez, some people want their pasty and eat it.
How long before she moves Dirk Diggler in once you're gone?
Jeez, some people want their pasty and eat it.
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Damn that text Message, I cannot even read it!
As for mom, I use that as do 99.9% of people from Wolverhampton - it's a regional thing
As for mom, I use that as do 99.9% of people from Wolverhampton - it's a regional thing
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well after reading your latest reply, I've totally changed my mind
GET RID OF HER!!!!
for god sakes man, just get rid. It will hurt, but you will be LOADS better off in the future.
GET RID OF HER!!!!
for god sakes man, just get rid. It will hurt, but you will be LOADS better off in the future.
I don't know what enrages me more, the situation, or that text speak!
Based on timescales, I can only assume that all parties involved are 25+ year old, who actually types like that as adults? It's like trying to decipher a 1 year old's attempt at writing a book!
Based on timescales, I can only assume that all parties involved are 25+ year old, who actually types like that as adults? It's like trying to decipher a 1 year old's attempt at writing a book!
It would be far harder for me to type like that on my android phone than just use the predictive text, why would a woman in their mid-20s with a husband and child be texting in this manor?
Also some of the replies from the lover were so childish. It would speak volumes to me, she is even interested in a guy like this. I bet you could do so much better OP.
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