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sorry if this does not make sense, just typing it as is

I think my wife has been cheating on me as about two/three weeks ago we had a big argument over finances and stress of my job. we talked about it and we were making a mend but over the two weeks she has been out over the weekend coming back at stupid times. She went to her moms house yesterday afternoon and didnt think much of it, so as i knew her google password on the phone i tracked it at it showed her phone at her moms house and didnt think much of it. I was to go out in the evening and she had both sets of keys for the house, tried phone her and didnt answer, i tried again nothing, called her mom, no answer, called her bother nothing. then 30 seconds later her brother calls said im trying to get in touch with my wife and he says let me try within 1 minute she is calling me , was asking what time she was comming home and said later and said i had no keys for the house just about to ask about our daughter and she hung up but i got a bit suspicious so i tracked her phone, and it was near a carpark in a city park, and was there for a very long time.

today was asking what she got up to and she said that she nothing judt down her moms and went shopping and dropped her brother off.

then later on she was using youtube and it kept saying something about her password so i said pass it her let me have a look, at the same time i installed andriodlost ( lets you see messages and calls remotely) in the evening i had a breakdown when talking to her and in so many words she said she is only with me becuase of out young daugter we talk i bit then when i went on the computer i accessed her phone and one of the message i read was this

Im really sorry XXXXXX but i cnt do this anymore we r kiddin ourselves if something is gna happen. I love u so much but i dnt c a way forward. We just go around im circles and we r hurting so many people in the interim. We r lying hidin 2 see eachother. We cnt do this. 7 years later n we r in the same position. Im sorry please dnt hate im so upset right now that i cnt bare 2 fink that u wont b in my life. Im sorry

so i confronted her and showed the message on the computer and she denied it saying i was sending this message for my friend to break up with his gf

she doesnt know that ive installed this software on her phone nor that i tracked her at the park

and now we are fighting again and dont know what to do next

she said that she doesnt trust me anymore and to have a think about what ive done
 
The story so far.

on the sunday night we talked said that there is no trust and that how did i get the message, i blagged it to say that i put a temporary password in her phone when she passed her phone to me. Not telling her that the software was still on there.

That night, i was so upset and drank 1/2 lt of vodka because if i did get it all wrong ive spoilt everything, or what if it was right and she has been cheating on me. and went to sleep about 2am


She went to work on the monday at 4am, i woke up about 5am just couldnt sleep

Cant write any more just to upset at the moment :(

Went down stairs and started texting her saying im sorry for sccusing her and forgive me, lets move forward from this and work something out. And that saying that i still love her.

But then my curiosity said lets she whats she doing has she contacted him again ??

Well

XXXXXX (+447XXXXXXXX) 01:84:00 Outgoing Mon Mar 10 04:45:43 GMT+00:00 2014

on the phone for over two hours to him

i then looked at the texts messages

that night he text back saying

Wots happnd? Y u bein lyk that

and in the morning i can see all my text messages and more from him and her saying

one the text i send was

I love you and will never stop loving you and don't know what I would do with out you in my life I know it was not love at first site for you but I will do anything to stay with you

and she forwarded my text to him and the reply was (W wife / C Cheater)

(C)
Wot u mean it was luv at first sight for me maybe nt for u. It was lyk a movie this gorgus girl walks in and is walkin towards me my hearts beatin n i fink im in a dream abt to faint.
(C)
Meanin fink before u talk n watch wot u say
(W)
I neva sent that msg tramp he sent it to me just now lol
(C)
Oh i fought u sed that to me n u was jokin. Lol. Say buy me a g6 jet then or jump of a cliff lol
(C)
Lol
(C)
Im being serious
(C)
Was it luv at first sight for u
(W)
No
(C)
So am i either way ur rich
(W)
Wt shall i do. What do u think i should do now
(W)
What u on bot
(C)
Im on abt wen did u knw u luvd me? Talk to ur mom see wot she says. Wiv him talk n see wot the options r in terms wot u gna do wiv DAUGHTER, if u sell up or kip the house, wot to do 1st n wen? Or do u jus stay as it is
(W)
He wants to stay together n fix it. I knew i lovednu straight away. What shall i do.
Well that night we were talking and and it lead in to what we would do if we split up and i said split and go out separate ways and what to do with our daugter and said i dont know

She then went on saying i earn enough to take over the house and that for me to move out and when i asked about our daughter she said stay with me and i wont stop you seeing her. and she said you can carry on picking her up from nusery and scholl till i get back from work, which is less then 2 hours a day, i then said that ive been with her every day of her life and tossed it to her saying that if you saw her 2 hours a day would you be happy her reply " Thats not going to happen"
 
the worst thing is that the court will always rule for the mother, speaking to my mother this morning, i have now have there support and financial support to support the house and my daughter.
 
You really need to catch them in bed.

I know a couple where the wife cheated on her husband, and had a baby with the new man. He couldn't prove that they had done the deed and file for adultery, even though they'd had a newborn together.

It depends how long the OP and his wife have been together. He's looking at going with "unreasonable behaviour", at this point.

I've no faith in the judicial system and the OP hasn't exactly obtained the evidence by legitimate means :o

Well she want to go to her moms this weekend and ive got a feeling that she will she him and i will be there hiding to see this and take photos.
 
Well i went into work today and spoke to the manager about this, she has always been a good listener ( No i dont fancy her, she double my age) also spoke to the union rep we have about getting free legal advise he has put me in touch with a solicitor that act for the union.

I want to get more physical evidence inc photos, also from what im aware of this person he has been on the wrong side of the law a few times( just say a fair few hire cars) . I need to know this for sure as it might help with custody

I wont even post today text messages it gets worse

Also what i saw today was that she had now deleted every message from him
 
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