For me its always has and allways will be about the games.
Got a PS1 for FF7, MGS and GT
Got a PS2 for FFX, God of War
Got a XBOX for Ninja Gaiden, Fable and KOTOR
Got a 360 for Gears, PGR, TDU, Forza
Bought none at release, waited till there was the killer app for it. At the moment the 360 has some excellent games and a decent back catalogue of titles.
The PS3 is the new kid, couple of good lauch titles but nothing to stir me to buy one, that being said when the killer app appears Ill no doubt take the plunge.
Personal opinion says 360 now as its a mature product in the market place, ask again in 6-8 months and it could well be the PS3 is the one to go for.
Of course this is all personal opinion, I have no brand loyality or fanboyism I go where the games I want to play are

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