I decided to put to the test the theory that a stock 3950x is faster at gaming than one which is overclocked. It's very limited, I've only tested one game , SoTTR specifically because it has CPU stats and GPU stats separated out.
Setup: 2080ti, 3950x, 32GB 3600 CL14 RAM
Game settings: 2560x1440p, "Highest" preset with Ray Tracing and DLSS both Off
I'd never done this test before, but I'm glad that I did. I'm now fully content that the overclock is better for gaming too, not just for work. There are some significant gains in CPU test scores between stock and 4.3ghz OC. This particular game is still GPU bound at 1440p and so GPU scores did not change, but with a more powerful GPU that could be different.
Stock 3950x
4.3 ghz all core 3950x