Soldato
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Sounds intriguing!
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Sounds intriguing!
I don't see why. It's only like asking your mates for suggestions. Sadly, my mates couldn't do more than dinner and drinks themselves.
Again, cheers for suggestions folks.
I actually hate these kind of stupid replies.
Indeed, and your contribution of nothing has also been well recieved.
I see nottingham, and yet no-ones suggested taking her to a nice romantic night out to Rock City
Is Thursday still Rock night?
Oh! ICE SKATING. There, sorted.
Did this as a first date and the night ended in A&E and her with a massive cut on her chin. Must have been good though as we are still together 2 years on
He's in Nottingham...oldest areas he'll be shot and the only memorable place he'll visit is the morgue...
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Did this as a first date and the night ended in A&E and her with a massive cut on her chin. Must have been good though as we are still together 2 years on
Is she disfigured now?
haha no, it healed and fadded pretty quick
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Apologies for hijacking the thread, but I need opinions on something similar and so don't really fancy clogging up the forum with more of the same.
Anyway, I was just wondering what everyone's take is on going to the cinema for a first date?
Cheers in advance.
Anyway, I was just wondering what everyone's take is on going to the cinema for a first date?
Cheers in advance.
Nah definitely don't do it. Its awkward as hell as you can't really chat naturally, you don't know if you can laugh at some things, and if something explicit or collar warming comes up it can be embarrrasing.
I've learnt from my mistakes xD
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Bad idea.
You won't get to talk to her during the film, you won't get to know each other. Afterwards will be embarrassing (also during the film, do you put your arm round her? Do you try and kiss her? Who knows! Even worse, you CAN'T have a laugh or a joke - you HAVE to sit there like a plum. Result - you BOTH just sit together like plums for 90 minutes, not doing anything remotely different from what she could have done on her tod)
First date should not be 1 on 1 ideally. She'd like you more if she was invited out with you and 8 of your mates for a big meal and a load of beers, or anything else you do as a group, AND it takes the pressure off you as you don't have to talk to her constantly you can do so as much or as little as you want (so no embarrassing silent moments, as you just join in your mates chat). As in, she'd have a much better time and feel less threatened and less pressure on the whole evening then some (nightmare) big romantic thing. If you ever run out of things to say one of your mates will probably be telling a story or talking so just listen to him for a while. Honestly , 50 times easier than 1 on 1 trying to have some crazy fun night ..
Of course later on you walk her back to her car/house just the two of you, and have got plenty to talk about (all the conversations from the whole night) and can do any goodnight kissing then.
She'll also see how popular you are, that you're not a nerdy no-mates, and you're not a freak expecting a girl to be 'everything to him and only him and be 100% totally only about each other immediately' (which will freak her out 100%).
It's basically keeping it friendly and not too deep too quickly.
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