If you're not a petrol head, I'd seriously question what you're doing.
Don't get me wrong, I've had my fair share of fun cars when I was younger, but these days I much prefer the stress-free life that comes with not spunking all my cash on unnecessary stuff. If you aren't a petrol head, then don't become one, because it is an endless money black-hole.
Personally I'd spend that sort money on getting a decent <=20k motor, and the rest on something life-changing and memorable like a once-in-a-lifetime trip somewhere.
Something you'll remember on your deathbed.....no-one's gonna be lying there breathing their last, thinking "I'm so glad I really lived and drove that Audi saloon for 18 months".....
Yup at my point in life right now, I'd buy a decent used but reasonably new/low mileage ford fiesta or a Toyota Yaris or something like that, as long as it's got about 100-120hp that's enough.
Bonus points if it's got a naturally aspirated petrol and as little ******** on a possible.