In my experience the card profile can change in the first week, but very rarely after that.
There’s also sub-concious recognition bias - your mind ends up tuning out sounds that are irrelevant, like fridges and boilers.
People can also spoil things for themselves. I recently bought a little vase thing which I noticed had a very, very minor defect. My OCD tendencies meant I couldn’t put that out of my mind until I had ‘dealt’ with the defect, one way of another. I realised I was being ridiculous and brute forced myself to just deal with it - uncomfortable for me - and, as soon as the ‘exchange / return period’ ended… I haven’t thought about it since
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