After thinking for while, i have these questions...
1) If i went with the AMD set up, took off monitor and upgraded GPU to ati 6950 or Gtx 560 would this be a good idea?
When you say take off the monitor, do you mean keep using your 17"?, because if you do, a 6950 or 560 would be completely wasted on it. Maybe for a future upgrade to a new monitor it would be ok.
so i dont really want to spend more on the cpu, i'd rather spend on the gpu i think.