A thread for all the ladies here in the forums!

Gilly said:
Its not all the same else the words wouldn't be different :)

Plenty of guys I know follow that stereotype thinking it'll work. Even some mates do it.
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To the first point, lol i'm not even going to answer that, your pedantry is amusing. As to your second point I think your friends are the exception rather than the norm. I'm sure people will back me up on that. I'll concede some guys think owning a car makes you look more attractive but thats a long way from rambling on about it to a girl.
 
Well you take your opinion, formed from your wealth of experience I'm sure, and I'll keep to mine :)

Whether you agree with me or not is largely irrelevant :)
 
Gilly said:
Whether you agree with me or not is largely irrelevant :)
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Ofcourse it is but this is an open discussion that others are able to join in and as we are discussing the opinions of guys then with enough replies supporting my argument it would be more favourable. I never said I had a wealth of experience I just believe what i'm saying to be common sense.
 
sara said:
Oh yes, I forgot - a man who can dance: VERY attractive. And quite rare.

I don't mean just jigging about behind the girls in a club, I mean someone with rhythm...
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A man who can dance definately turns my head :D

I don't know many that can dance well, even less that can dance well with someone, but it's definately very attractive. :)
 
Kell_ee001 said:
A man who can dance definately turns my head :D

I don't know many that can dance well, even less that can dance well with someone, but it's definately very attractive. :)
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How about blokes who at least try to dance? :p
 
Theres five types of guys when it comes to dancing (ok i'm generalising here):

-Good dancers and dance a lot

-Good dancers but are too shy to dance much

-Bad dancers and dance a lot (badly)

-Bad dancers and don't dance because of it or are just to shy.

-Aren't great dancers but at least know how to dance in rythm with the music so just keep their dancing rather passive.

I come under the last or third category depending on how much i've had to drink :p although I don't drink silly amounts anymore so usually the last. Can't really say how bad/good I am at dancing though since people don't tell me, although I did get a compliment on my dancing style once from this girl that was watching me dance for a while :eek: Sadly she had a bf with her :p
 
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kitten_caboodle said:
up to you what you do on a Friday night tbh :p
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hehe. Unfortunately it's upto my bank manager what I do on a friday night, and this month he wants me to stay in the house and not spend a penny. :mad: :p
 
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Rich_L said:
Agreed with Gilly all the way, there's definitely a 'classic' look to guys which the majority of girls like, it's not hard to find just flick through a Cosmo mag and it stares you in the face, and as Gilly says it's the Brad Pitt in Oceans Eleven look.

And obligatory ME ME ITS ME comment :p
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For the record Rich_L oozes sex and charisma and is generally hot stuff. ;)
 
kitten_caboodle said:
says you ;)
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Haha hell I'll take that :D

*blushes* on DRZ's comments too, thanks! Think the problem is that a lot of blokes get told they're good looking and believe the hype so much they disappear up their own arses and just expect girls to like them forgetting that the cliché that girls are attracted by personality too is quite true, you have to have the chat to back it up!

As Gilly said though, couple of years back I'd be the first to admit that I was the somewhat on the shy side but then worked a bit of a personality change and went 110% chat to anyone, gotta be in it to win it and had a mental year, now a bit more settled down but seem to have retained the same attractive self-confidence, just a bit more discerning what I do with it :p
 
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JoeRiches said:
Starvation? Or do you hapen to be a plastic surgeon? lol :p

Or do you own the keys to the fridge.... :D

I mean no offence with any of my comments

Being fully truthfull though all i have ever found it takes to meet anyone is confidence, if you can walk up to someone and talk to them confidently and not just talk gibberish cause you've drank so much even your best mates mum looks hot. Then people will still want to talk to you, you dont even have to be dressed in £100 shirts and trousers and stuff, if you look confident then people will notice that.
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LOL no sexercise and plenty of it;) and no offence taken

Of course its all about confidence, im an ugly **** tbh but i still can and could pull just about any lass i wanted to. The way i see it is that its a state of mind, confidence comes from within...yes im cheeky..ive even had a few lasses say im arrogant but in a good way ie its a turn on for them. Hell i dress like a tramp at times when im out and about, i sure as hell dont dress like a million dollars..cant see the need to etc.
But as ive said plenty time to my mates, its all about confidence...if u exude confidence..women pick up on it. Going back 7 yrs ago...geez makes me sound ancient hehe...i was one of the most shyest fellas around...hardly had anything to say and suffered from confidence issues but i soon sorted that out and since then i havent looked back.
Now i got myself an awesome american chick who loves me for me and wants to be with me and i feel the same as her. I know if anyone asked her what the most attractive thing about me..she would definitely say my confidence/arrogance...for her its a massive turn-on...for me thats a good thing:p..

Anyways its a friday night and god knows what im doing indoors, think its time i made my way out to my mates place for a nice long smoking session;)
 
i like it when a guy walks into wherever....and he has a smile on his face one that lights you up,he seems confident no matter job/status,like them when htey have a giant ago(i love crusing egos),looks like he has an alright package and can pull of a good conversation and what get my juices flowin is combining all of those and sussing out if he could be a champion lover in bed and hit it good,damn good!
 
evergreen said:
i like it when a guy walks into wherever....and he has a smile on his face one that lights you up,he seems confident no matter job/status,like them when htey have a giant ago(i love crusing egos),looks like he has an alright package and can pull of a good conversation and what get my juices flowin is combining all of those and sussing out if he could be a champion lover in bed and hit it good,damn good!
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I like you.

:p
 
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