A time to fight?

badgermonkey

badgermonkey

badgermonkey

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Right basically im in halls at uni.

Some guy is trying to use a girl who genuinely likes him, and just sleep with her and **** off basically. Shes a good friend of mine, and then i found out he hasn't even told her he has a girlfriend. I went to confront him about it because tbh it's not really on. He acted apologetic etc, he's friends with one of my flatmates so he hangs around my flat a fair bit. I went out with mates tonight, there was a small party at my flat to which he attended. I arrive home to find i cant fit my key in my lock, something is in there, only something small, but it's there nonetheless. I have witnesses who say he spent about half an hour in the corridor by my room chatting with mates etc, but they were crowded around my door and laughing at one point. I've chatted to the warden, who's had to temporarily remove the lock entirely (I dont feel very happy about leaving it unattended tomorrow), but witnesses who "thinks" it was him isn't enough proof for disciplinary action. So im thinking about taking this into my own hands.

Before people start coming up with **** like "nuke him from orbit" or "pics of the girl" etc, dont bother. Seriously. I want to know if there are really any other options open to me without just beating several kinds of **** into him. Because i am sorely tempted.
 
Go speak to him again, confront him when hes on his own.

People aren't so tough when there on there own. If it turns out it was him, well you have no choice ;)

Thats what I would do, be civilised at first, if hes a ****, then do what you gotta do.
 
If you posted on the internet about it, you're not going to hit him...

So... I guess you'll have to think of something else...
 
Is it really worth getting into a fight over? For a start it might not have been him, you said yourself he was with others. If it was a student party then no doubt there were a few people getting drunk, any one of them could have done it.

I would probably just leave it. You have spoken to him about your friend and assuming he got the message you may as well just leave him alone.

SiriusB
 
People say its keyboard warrior but go round and slap him about, its what our fathers did and its what I will continue to do, there is no harm in slapping a guy about, hes trying to push his luck, so push it with a suprise left slap, right uppercut.
 
For a start, you have no idea its him. May of just been another drunk nob thinking it would be funny, not really being malicious, but not realising it will completely bork the lock up.

For second, now you've confronted him about his immoral actions, if the girl finds out about his other half he will straight away assume you told her. Everyone will think you're a snitch.

Dude. All wrong. You should have done it the honeourable way and found a picture of him and his girlfriend and slip it somewhere she'd find it. :p
 
A5H said:
If you posted on the internet about it, you're not going to hit him...

So... I guess you'll have to think of something else...
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Really? What are you basing this on?



if the girl finds out about his other half he will straight away assume you told her. Everyone will think you're a snitch.
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Im sure id feel terribly telling someone I consider a good friend the truth.


If it was a student party then no doubt there were a few people getting drunk, any one of them could have done it.
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And if i could find out for sure?
 
If you were going to be violent over it you'd have done it by now. Anyone that asks whether they should before doing it is probably going to have their ass handed to them on a plate, and if it comes out that the actions were premeditated and you do end up beating the hell out of him you'll be well and truly screwed.
 
Gilly said:
If you were going to be violent over it you'd have done it by now. Anyone that asks whether they should before doing it is probably going to have their ass handed to them on a plate, and if it comes out that the actions were premeditated and you do end up beating the hell out of him you'll be well and truly screwed.
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Well what with this happening yesterday, and him having gone back home to his flat, i can't get into his block after midnight, so funnily enough no i haven't done anything yet.

Secondly, I'm perfectly aware of how this sounds stating this on the net, but i have never ever had my ass handed to me. I am not saying i've never lost fights, because i have, but generally it doesnt happen.

Ok it's premeditated violence then... how many people here know exactly who or where i am? I know of 2, possibly 3. My question was not "Yeah im gona kick him in what do you think?", it was whether i have any better alternatives, since he's one of the sorts of people who need to be shown physically that they're not all they think they are.
 
Don't be such a fool, giving him a kicking will solve nothing. Tell your lady friend what he is like. After that it's up to her whether or not she wants to continue with him or not. Forget about the door thing.

If after you do the above and he seeks revenge with you, then kick his ass. Until then, put the keyboard down and deal with it in a mature manner.
 
badgermonkey said:
Im sure id feel terribly telling someone I consider a good friend the truth.
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Ha ha - your eyes are greener than the hulk. :p

If you tell her, then do you think she's just going to thank you? If she's really into him, then he'll worm his way out, she'll forgive him and then blame you for trying to breaking them up.

Let it all come out in the wash, then be the shoulder to cry on when it all goes **** up.

At leat thats my kind of messed up experience of women. :D
 
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Scuzi said:
Don't be such a fool, giving him a kicking will solve nothing. Tell your lady friend what he is like. After that it's up to her whether or not she wants to continue with him or not. Forget about the door thing.
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Well letting the "door thing" go is great, except my room is no longer able to be locked as it has no lock, and the new one is being installed either today or tomorrow. Im out in lectures etc most of today, and tonight im back home for the night. Leaving my room exposed like that to a **** like that who as i said spends time in the flat is not particularly appealing.
 
His passive agressive attack says either he doesn't fancy his chances in a fight or he does but he wants you to start it. The next time you see him, grab him by the throat and tell him not to mess with your stuff again. He'll either back down or you'll have a fight. Make sure you win.
 
badgermonkey said:
It's a terrible thing to comprehend people going to university for you is it? Dont believe in education or what?
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No, I thought by now you would have grown up enough! I mean come on do you really think beating the guy is going to solve it. What happens if he goes to the cops? Assault charges? Jail? All I can say your career would be over.

By the way I've done my stint in uni, I graduated with a 1st from Cardiff. :p
 
noob said:
No, I thought by now you would have grown up enough! I mean come on do you really think beating the guy is going to solve it. What happens if he goes to the cops? Assault charges? Jail? All I can say your career would be over.
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It's a tried and tested method of letting people know where they stand, dating back to when we weren't even people.

And IF he went to the police, I seriously doubt id be in for any major punishment, he already has a criminal record for fighting left over from a year or so ago i think it is, i have an entirely clean sheet with the police.
 
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