Soldato
Newborns are horribly stressful all round. Neither of you will be fully your normal selves under the constant crying, sleep deprivation and sheer unreasonableness of babies.
We evolved to be communal creatures. She should be sitting round the fire with a bunch of other mothers and an extended family of grandparents and older children sharing the burden whilst you and your fellow males try to bring down a mammoth. But in modern society, we try to do everything by ourselves and it kills us. Just accept this will be a terribly hard time for both of you, do anything you can to get support from family, close friends, etc. And promise to survive this period with your marriage intact.
We evolved to be communal creatures. She should be sitting round the fire with a bunch of other mothers and an extended family of grandparents and older children sharing the burden whilst you and your fellow males try to bring down a mammoth. But in modern society, we try to do everything by ourselves and it kills us. Just accept this will be a terribly hard time for both of you, do anything you can to get support from family, close friends, etc. And promise to survive this period with your marriage intact.