Right I don’t know what to say and how to react.
Basically one of my friends has posted a status this morning to say they are now identifying as a woman. I’m going to completely honest, at first I thought it was a wind up, then I realised it probably isn’t.
I genuinely don’t know how to react. I want to be supportive etc but honestly can’t bring myself to. I’m a very open minded person. Like if someone came out and said they are gay for example then fair play that’s normal these days and as long as they don’t go bringing it up constantly I really couldn’t give a damn.
But the whole fluid sexuality or man identifying as a woman and vice versa for me is just wrong. Fair enough if you feel you are in the wrong body but tough. There isn’t really anything you can do about it. You can do whatever you want, have whatever surgery you want etc but you are still in the same body just chopped up a bit.
I apologise if this breaks any forum rules so feel free to delete the post if it does. He’s got a new facebook profile as his female self, and I’m going to be completely honest, it’s literally my mate in drag.
I know I sound really bad and I genuinely want to be supportive but I just can’t and I feel terrible because of it. I’m not religious at all but to me it just seems wrong.
Is there anyone else who has had similar and if so how did you react etc?
Like I said, I genuinely feel horrible saying to above but that’s how I feel.
I apologise to anyone who has undertaken gender realignment etc. At the end of the day it is your decision and this post wasn’t intended to cause offence.
Basically one of my friends has posted a status this morning to say they are now identifying as a woman. I’m going to completely honest, at first I thought it was a wind up, then I realised it probably isn’t.
I genuinely don’t know how to react. I want to be supportive etc but honestly can’t bring myself to. I’m a very open minded person. Like if someone came out and said they are gay for example then fair play that’s normal these days and as long as they don’t go bringing it up constantly I really couldn’t give a damn.
But the whole fluid sexuality or man identifying as a woman and vice versa for me is just wrong. Fair enough if you feel you are in the wrong body but tough. There isn’t really anything you can do about it. You can do whatever you want, have whatever surgery you want etc but you are still in the same body just chopped up a bit.
I apologise if this breaks any forum rules so feel free to delete the post if it does. He’s got a new facebook profile as his female self, and I’m going to be completely honest, it’s literally my mate in drag.
I know I sound really bad and I genuinely want to be supportive but I just can’t and I feel terrible because of it. I’m not religious at all but to me it just seems wrong.
Is there anyone else who has had similar and if so how did you react etc?
Like I said, I genuinely feel horrible saying to above but that’s how I feel.
I apologise to anyone who has undertaken gender realignment etc. At the end of the day it is your decision and this post wasn’t intended to cause offence.