^^ The civilised vs uncivilised comparison is interesting, it could be argued that we became less civilised after the various major religious revolutions which came in later times.
We only know life as we know it. It's only in recent years that science has found that organisms live in extreme conditions like those that eat radioactive waste, or water bears that can literally live in space. Our solar system is extremely young, not even a toddler age on a cosmic scale. biological life is at the mercy of nature. All it takes is one asteroid to wipe any signs of life off the entire planet. The dinosaurs lived for +160 million years before they were wiped out in one sitting by a space rock.
Also keep in mind the famous quote from Arthur C Clarke, that any sufficiently advanced technology is indistinguishable from magic.
We have projects like Breakthrough Listen, SETI etc all doing things to try to detect signs of intelligent life based on their communications emissions out there in space but those projects are listening for stuff that we'd be broadcasting, like radio waves and visual signals. The problem is space faring life is unlikely to be using primitive means. There are now more exotic means of comms or markers being explored now too as scientists account for technologies we have yet to even dream about. But as said above, any signs of life we detect from distant space is going to be from life that existed from that point in time millions/billions of years ago as the light/signal has only just reached us. They are either now extinct, or evolved far beyond.
Many of us normal folks have been watching, reading and looking up this sort of subject for most our lives and it's really fascinating and I'd say we know more about the subject than the average Metro reader so it's always a bit frustrating when these sorts of articles get published I guess.