The game sucks,
CLICKY I've chucked a lot of hours into this game, met some great people, however great people are a rarity in this game. It's not full of cheaters people just whine a lot. RTW (Realtime Worlds) launched the game a few years back, bad management and the company went bust (you could get a refund for your money), forward a bit, GamersFirst (now Reloaded Games) bought the game and worked on it, launched it no better than what it was, cheaters invaded, however got quickly bored and have since moved on, it can be pretty pay-to-win and is a very grindy game without a premium account. I personally spent quite a lot of money on the game (We're talking hundreds), I joined a big clan that had been around since the start of the game on its original launch on the server that the OP mentioned (Patriot EU2).
The customisation in the game is superb, and frankly that's all that is good about it. The combat system sucks, the matchmaking is even worse (first mission you enter you could be put up against someone who is highest level available with access to all weapons in the game (apart from a select few) and will most probably have Armas Weapons (Weapons for Cash). To sumarise, if you like a lot of customisation in a dying game with infrequent updates and when there are updates not fixing any bugs just adding more content for you to put more money in their bulging wallets to actually get through the levels. Not to forget, poor combat system and ****** matchmaking, then this game is for you.
Take it from me, a player who's put a lot of hours into the game, and knows its community pretty well
tl;dr: Read the above.