am a right idiot

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JRY said:
We've only just broken up 3 months ago.

I told her that I will be moving out.
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3 months ago isn't 'only just broken up'.

You should've moved out 3 months ago.

Even if you were ever going to get back together, living together wasn't going to help.
 
I'm also with Nix.

To me, it sounds like your relationship was already over, but it seems like she was keeping you around until she found something better.

I wouldn't go beating yourself up over it, you got your end away, good man.
 
Nix said:
Look, you're either together or you're not. Less of this umming and ahhing.

If it's unfair you bringing girls back, it's just as unfair for her to keep you strung along whilst she's being a headacase.

Stand up for yourself. If you're not together, she doesn't have a damn bit of authority over your sex-life anymore. You're a grown man, not a bit of convenience for her.

/Prepares to be flamed.
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I agree with this tbh.

You obviously both still have feelings for each other which is fair enough as it will take time to move on and living together won't help one bit.

I'm not quite sure what she was doing walking in to your room to find you hanging out the back of a double bagger? Surely if she could see your door was shut and hear some poor lass getting a slamming then she needn't walk in on you.

I think it's probably best to accept that it's over for good as being strung along/sat on the fence as to whether ot not you'll have another crack at a relationship is more damaging than you think. Having been balls deep infront of her has confirmed that it probably won't happen.

It's not what you want to hear but try not to spend too long stuck on her. Live and learn.
 
He doesn't get it most women want to both have their cake and then eat it.

I swear she will come back to him after finding out that what she iwas jealously denying him some body else is will to give it out at no emotional cost
 
Hey OP, shag a few more fat chicks but this time do it in front of your GF whilst she is watching Eastenders.

Should show her who wears the trousers.
 
izit said:
Blaming alcohol for being sleeping around and being inconsiderate, typical!
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He didn't sleep around but slept with one girl after 3 months of brake up which makes him one the most considerate men you can find around.

Can you afford to break up with your ex and then allow him/her to give your permission before you sleep with anybody. The man was an idiot for allowing his ex to slap a sex ban on him but after the act he now looks some body with a brain!
 
Yo! Pounding fat chicks is what us Guidos do, Respect, Brah!

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Nightmare trying to live with an ex - I wouldn't imagine it will do you any good in the long run so you've probably done yourself a rather large favour. After the intial grief your ex will give you, she will probably be gagging. So if you play your cards right..
 
hey Guys. just got back from Italy! had an amazing time and met some amazing people.
moving out ASAP but looking for a decent flat is a pain in the bottom!
 
[FnG]magnolia;19547755 said:
Stop being a terrible person.

The End.
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Sadly I've seen relationships were sleeping with another girl ended it irredeemably. And why shouldn't it? In most cases it amounts to total betrayal of trust.

I've seen it happen to people close to me, and I can't say I understand it, when said person claimed to "love" the woman he cheats on. It does seem that real life is becoming like an episode of EastEnders.
 
What so this daft bint dumps you "so she can find herself" and then gets all bent out of shape when you get on with your life ?

Her problem.
 
JRY said:
Hi guys

This isn't another relationship thread. I just need to get it off my chest what an absolute AS$%&/e I am. Feel free to mock or poke fun at me.
I live with my ex. We had an amazing relationship and are best friends. We've only just broken up 3 months ago. It was a mutual breakup because we were constantly having stressess and not really communicating our issues, just coexisting together. We broke up wanting to give ourselves space to grow individually and she wanted to better understand herself and to learn to be alone(if this makes sense?)

I regret the breakup and do want her back. She knows this.

Thanks for reading.
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FoxEye said:
Sadly I've seen relationships were sleeping with another girl ended it irredeemably. And why shouldn't it? In most cases it amounts to total betrayal of trust.

I've seen it happen to people close to me, and I can't say I understand it, when said person claimed to "love" the woman he cheats on. It does seem that real life is becoming like an episode of EastEnders.
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They had already broken up, so not cheating really. :)
 
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