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Agreed. Still, I'd advise ignoring the man-child shut-ins chirping in with their opinions of whether you're in a relationship or not, how you shouldn't let a woman control your life and why it's awesome that you had sex. Whatever the situation between you and your partner/ex, you need to sort it out as befits the circumstance and with a clear intention towards what's best for both of you.
Haha, because a username 'deadbeat' is really one to take notice of.
Nice of you to abuse everyone in the thread
Haha, because a username 'deadbeat' is really one to take notice of.
Nice of you to abuse everyone in the thread
Same name I've used since I was 13
. But yeah, I'm probably a bit more abusive than I need to be, but it goads me when people paste up black & white takes on what could well be a much more complicated situation than they've ever encountered. Quotes like "You're either in a relationship or you're not" are so naive that I've not even heard Jeremy Kyle spout it yet, and that guy's a grade A twit (for lack of a censor bypass).
If you really cared for her you would tell her that you have two options.
1) You both get back together and live happily ever after.
2) You move out and get on with your life not wondering what an ex will think about you smashing someones pasty.
MAN UP!
Edit: i must have missed Loki's post but we are on the same wavelength
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She's not your best friend any more, if she was she wouldnt be annoyed at you bringing girls back.
As Loki says, pick a choice, but she cant have it both ways.
As Loki says, pick a choice, but she cant have it both ways.
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I agree with you.
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Hey!
Uh oh, it probably is.
Woop, there it is.
OP, read this back to yourself and try to be impartial. Does any of it sound cliched at all?
Awkward.
Wait, what?
But you ... did this anyway even though you've broken up? Also, that rule thing?
You don't love her, you are used to her or you're using her, whichever term fits best, I guess.
That's a lot of stuff wrapped up into one paragraph. What do you really, really want to do?
That would be great in many circumstances, but not when she's your ex and you want to get back with her and she doesn't want to get back with you. That was the situation before you got drunk and made a fool of yourself, so you doing so isn't the problem.
Why do you think you were being cruel? That's rubbish. Firstly, cruelty requires intent to harm. Secondly, what's cruel about a single person having consensual sex with another single person? At worst, you were being rude by bringing someone home for sex without your housemate's agreement.
I have to agree with the players on here, good on you. She wants her cake blah blah. You cant stay in limbo, we all know it would hurt to see the ex with someone else, hence one of you should move away.
I would say though, that you have made her jealous. It will work in your favour, and although some people say has blown your chances, id say has strengthened them.
However, if she isnt a serial witch, and is upset then you should talk about her leaving, cause you need to get on it dude, theres plenty more fun to be had.
p.s// If the girl you took home was a not as fit as her, you lose. Never go lower.
I would say though, that you have made her jealous. It will work in your favour, and although some people say has blown your chances, id say has strengthened them.
However, if she isnt a serial witch, and is upset then you should talk about her leaving, cause you need to get on it dude, theres plenty more fun to be had.
p.s// If the girl you took home was a not as fit as her, you lose. Never go lower.
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