Am i being oversensitive or do i have a point here

Tefal

Tefal

Tefal

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So was out with a friend meant to be just the two of hs but thier friend wanted to tag along so i said fine.

We go out both of them are forgien and both can speak English but together the whole time they both speak native to each other so im sat there like a lemon not knowing wtf is going on .

But when ever one of them leaves (loo etc)the other talks to me fine in English..

I kept quiet throught the day as i thought it was like a one off a friend from back home was over or something so they were catchign up but its not they both know each other well live literally 2 doors apart so now im a bit ****ed off.

Told the one i know it was a bit **** for me being sat not knowing wtf was going on and getting told im being oversensitive.

It's not jsut me is it sitting where 3 of you know the same language speaking one only 2 of you know is a bit of a shot thing to do.
 
Tefal said:
So was out with a friend meant to be just the two of hs but thier friend wanted to tag along so i said fine.

We go out both of them are forgien and both can speak English but together the whole time they both speak native to each other so im sat there like a lemon not knowing wtf is going on .

But when ever one of them leaves (loo etc)the other talks to me fine in English..

I kept quiet throught the day as i thought it was like a one off a friend from back home was over or something so they were catchign up but its not they both know each other well live literally 2 doors apart so now im a bit ****ed off.

Told the one i know it was a bit **** for me being sat not knowing wtf was going on and getting told im being oversensitive.

It's not jsut me is it sitting where 3 of you know the same language speaking one only 2 of you know is a bit of a shot thing to do.
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Nope I am with you, it's rather rude. It's the same in food shops etc when the public facing staff all speak to each other in polish for example instead of English infront of customers.
 
Tefal said:
So was out with a friend meant to be just the two of hs but thier friend wanted to tag along so i said fine.

We go out both of them are forgien and both can speak English but together the whole time they both speak native to each other so im sat there like a lemon not knowing wtf is going on .

But when ever one of them leaves (loo etc)the other talks to me fine in English..

I kept quiet throught the day as i thought it was like a one off a friend from back home was over or something so they were catchign up but its not they both know each other well live literally 2 doors apart so now im a bit ****ed off.

Told the one i know it was a bit **** for me being sat not knowing wtf was going on and getting told im being oversensitive.

It's not just me is it sitting where 3 of you know the same language speaking one only 2 of you know is a bit of a shot thing to do.
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I think your "friends" were rude and inconsiderate.

You might want to reconsider your friendships.
 
Orionaut said:
I think your "friends" were rude and inconsiderate.

You might want to reconsider your friendships.
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Thats my thinking theyre a fairly new friend but we get on well whe its just us two but as far as im concered i just wated a day.

I didnt mind when i thought i was an old home friend visiting bit finding out they literkay live next door its a kick in the teeth

Thought id tell them and figured it would be a bit of a "oh **** i djnt realise" moment but getting told its me being oversentive makes me think its kinda not worth the ****ing hassle bothering with them

Its not a sif theyre a friend i see through work or otheres i just met them at a larty and got on.
 
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