that's another big ole grasp right there.....it may well be true but without proof you're grasping to defend your position....i've already mentioned you don't need to defend it, you're entitled to it. i could 'grasp' myself and suggest the reason you're continuing to defend it is because you realise you're wrong. but that would be me grasping and making assumptions without all the necessary info
You can keep calling it grasping, but a lot of what the OP is posting makes absolutely zero sense and that's even if you exclude the whole phone issue.
For example (and I'll actually quote the OP here):
- "That is my issue as I have direct debits coming out and that £600 they took is gonna make me short." <-- this confirms that direct debits are >= £600
- "Now I have 2 direct debits for my credit card companies going out tonight" <-- they're credit card payments, meaning there's interest to pay for being short and potential implications for credit file
- "This is not about savings, as I budget my money very well and I have other bills to pay more than just the £600 they have taken out from my account,but my point here is that their mistake has now cost me as I should not have to use my savings to pay for the mess they have created!" <-- Confirms he has savings, but out of some weird principle, decides he shouldn't use them to ensure his credit card payments actually go through. I.e. purposely choosing not to mitigate additional cost and risk to his credit file/score
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