Got no problem with an MMO being a grind, most MMOs are, my issue with New World always was (and still is) that its just a very poor MMO, lacking in most of the features that ought to be in an MMO imo.
For me, its one of those "MMOs" which is for people who never got to be around during the golden age of MMOs (the pre-2004 era) and so never got to play MMOs like UO, Daoc, EQ1, AC1 and SWG and as a result unfortunately arent aware of just how much can actually be in an MMO or how good they truly can be.
The MMO genre used to be my favourite genre of gaming (back in the pre2004 days) but they are so dumbed down now and its maddening that MMOs in 2023 actually have less features that ones from 25 years ago. Thats regression rather than progression.