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Apologise, accept that your bad decision will put you in the dog house for a while and then make it up to her, take her away for a dirty weekend
 
Your girlfriend sounds a bit of a bitch bro. What were you supposed to do, not go on the Oktoberfest trip you had already paid for?
 
theDude said:
Apologise, accept that your bad decision will put you in the dog house for a while and then make it up to her, take her away for a dirty weekend
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yeh thats what I was kinda planning on doing, but it just sucks for the moment and normally I'd complain to her but in this instance I can't obviously
 
Feel a bit cheated by the thread title tbh.

Sounds like you've had a riot of a time and thanks to the women in your life. Don't see you've got anything to moan about. Man up buddy, she could have dumped your ass.
 
naefeart said:
Feel a bit cheated by the thread title tbh.

Sounds like you've had a riot of a time and thanks to the women in your life. Don't see you've got anything to moan about. Man up buddy, she could have dumped your ass.
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Yeh it was a good trip, she hasn.t dumped me yet but it wasn't a nice convo this afternoon. Oh and no thanks to mum... Yet heheh :D
 
How much money did you spend at Oktoberfest (not the booking and accommodation as I see this was already paid for)? Could this have covered her rent?

I can see why she is pee'd off. You already said she wasn't happy about covering for you rent then you then went off for the weekend leaving her at home where she can't book her trip away because your off drunk with your mates.
 
You can't save the relationship. Girls want a man who can provide, so that when they have children they can depend on you. She thinks she can't depend on you, and she's right, because you went for a holiday and to a festival after quitting your job.

You know all that stuff already. Going forwards you need to save up so you can deal with being unemployed for a short time without depending on other people. Hopefully you'll do better with the next girl?
 
I can't believe your bitching about your mum, you should be grateful she gave you the money! I could never even ask or accept that kind of cash from anyone for a holiday, never mind blame them when they done it a few days later!

Be a bit more grateful, your parents are so nice.
 
FNGsam said:
i know its my fault. I'm 24 and only have the 2 years here to get as much done as I can so no point having a savings account or what not and don't want to miss anything. Also did spend a lot less at oktoberfest than I would have but still more than nothing I guess.
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Sorry if i missed it but im curious what you mean by that?
 
[FnG]magnolia;20223244 said:
Stop using the women in your life as financial crutches. You should also dump your girlfriend as she deserves far better.
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Shut up.

She deserves better? , hes a young bloke having a bit of fun and if his parents dont mind lending him money then so what.

You spend your life writing obscure or baited posts on this forum and you deserve a single life more than this guy does.
 
What hedge said.

From what I've guessed, he's over from australia, working in london for a couple of years but it's a great way to travel and see europe and stuff, so that's a priority of that lifestyle.

I know I wouldn't have a problem shouting a partner a rent installment if I had it, especially if they'd arranged something which hadn't quite come through yet.

Seems like a lot of people in here are forgetting what it means to be alive.
 
[FnG]magnolia;20223358 said:
There's nothing obscure or baited about what I said at all. Tell me which words are giving you trouble and I'll try to rephrase them for you.
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Your reply to a thread about a taxi driver was obscure, but very well done I admit.

Your post here is just slagging the guy off and I see it as baiting him for a reaction. Which Ive notice you do other times across the forum.

Whats wrong with the OPs lifestyle that means he warrants being dumped?

Having a fun trip at 22 with his mates, but using some funds from his Mother to help him along the way?

Not exactly grounds to be kicked to the curb.
 
FNGsam said:
hello everyone,

just after a little bit of advice on what to do now after stuffing up.

Basically I quit my job to go travelling through Europe and mum was meant to send me some money for when I got back as I had a few set backs and didn't want that to stop me going on my trip. Then I came back a week early and mum still hadn't transferred me the money and end result my girlfriend had to cover rent for me.. She is obviously not happy about this. Mum has finally got sorted and the money should arrive in a few days (better late than never right) then I went to Oktoberfest this weekend just passed and this sort of clinched it for the missus and we had quite the row when I got back today as she has had to wait on booking a new years eve trip since she wasn't able to afford it because of me and all the while I was in munich with the boys..

I know its all on me and I'm an idiot etc etc but if mum had just transferred me the money when she was supposed to then this would all be fine :(

Now I'm feeling all sad about myself and wanted to get it off my chest. So OCUK is there anything you guys can offer to potentially save my relationship!
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