Another Relationship Thread

FishThrower said:
women always try and manipulate the situtation and blame it on the bloke.
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People always try to manipulate people that they can, if they dont understand themselves properly

Power in a situation is not handed to you, it is taken. If you place yourself below a person, they will treat you the way you expect to be treated...
 
Kell_ee001 said:
And you're basing that fact on what?

You seem to have some big issues with women.
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wouldnt go that far, it frustrates me to see a thread like this when women tries and play the victim and manipulates people.

Im not really like this, you caught me in a moany mood :)
 
cleanbluesky said:
People always try to manipulate people that they can, if they dont understand themselves properly

Power in a situation is not handed to you, it is taken. If you place yourself below a person, they will treat you the way you expect to be treated...
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wise words :)
 
cleanbluesky said:
People always try to manipulate people that they can, if they dont understand themselves properly

Power in a situation is not handed to you, it is taken. If you place yourself below a person, they will treat you the way you expect to be treated...
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You have a strong point here. The last time i did see her, she was asking questions which would receive a "I'm feeling crappy" rsponse, but i refusd, told her iw as going out with my mates to drink and smoke myself to oblivion. Told her to have a good weekend and left, i could see she was shocked, but i genuinely did do that and i had a fantastic time so i wasn't saying it as ammo, i'm not like that. I say things for there true meaning, not to give clues or get people guessing what i mean.

I can see all of your points, there valid, and who would take back a depressed ****** up bloke anyway? I think i keep thinking about the good times, rather than the bad times.
 
Matt-Page said:
I can see all of your points, there valid, and who would take back a depressed ****** up bloke anyway? I think i keep thinking about the good times, rather than the bad times.
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you can start by not thinking like that and stop smoking the whacky backy :)
 
FishThrower said:
you can start by not thinking like that and stop smoking the whacky backy :)
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Who said anything about that? I said smoking ;)

At least i know not to get financially tied to a girl again, or devote myself to them. Thank god i have got good mates, they have really helped me. I will try to never again put myself in such a vulnerable situation with a girl.

Do you think i should sod off for a week? I have a mate who has just moved down there and he has asked me down. Am i just running away from my problems?
 
Matt-Page said:
Do you think i should sod off for a week? I have a mate who has just moved down there and he has asked me down. Am i just running away from my problems?
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Your location does not define whether you are running away from your problems, becasue your problems will be carried with you in your head and heart. So will their solution.
 
Matt-Page said:
So should i go? Might take my mind off things for a short while, and give me time to relax.

Dunno. Hard to think straight.
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Where you are now is probably going to make you nostalgic. Go for it dude, a change of scenery is good :)
 
yeah, dont see her if possible. :)

do you own the house together? if so sort it out ASAP and get her to buy it off you or put it up for sale. if not, get your stuff back and cut all ties.

and delete her number from your phone.... stops you texting/ringing when drunk etc.
 
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