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Stinky

Stinky

Stinky

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so the missus split up with me yesterday becasue she wants to keep the awesome friendship that we have. wernt together long but i really do like her.

now im just feeling crap, i know it didnt last long but i've always had feelings for her.

end of moan.
 
lol.

thing is with me and the now ex is that she wants to go back to the mates that we where, we'd been pretty close ;) since like febuary only got together a few weeks ago, now she says it felt right at the time but now she doesnt want to lose the friendship.

i dont seem to have the best luck with the ladies at the mo lol
 
Robbie G said:
Don't believe them when they call friendship. She either has someone else or finds you super mega-fugly with a mouldy mango twist.
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i go with the latter, knocked me confidence now;) she is pretty fit though, so she's always got guys flirting with her
 
knip said:
No its not, you need some time and space where you dont communicate. Otherwise you will still have that tiny bit of hope she might change her mind.

I havent seen my ex for a month now, and because it was me who broke up with him, id find it easier to see him (because I had made my mind up to do it so got myself ready for it before) whereas he is still avoiding situations where he might bump into me. I dont want to ring to check hes ok because I dont want to put him back to square one, while he sorts himself out. Plus the way he is being toward my other mates is making me feel less inclined to do that.

Dont see her today, give yourself (and her too) some space and time to find yourselves again.
(just my advice mind)
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i see what your saying.

i mean i really want to friendship we had before but obviously when she meets someone else its gong to hurt lol
 
Panzerbjorn said:
My best advice would be to grab a bunch of mates and do something for the day. Go for a bike ride, go swimming or something. Get out of the house with a good bunch of friends and forget about her for a bit.

Then go down the pub tonight and get a few beers on board :)

My house mates took me swimming in the sea in the middle of January when I split up with my ex (2006 not this January just gone) helped no end. Puts things in perspective.



Panzer
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i bet it did that time of the year ;)

i'm seeing her at 4, she still aint sure if she's made the right decision. maybe she;s just stringing me along. i'll figgered i will meet her and find out for myself.

after that im planning to go get trashed with the lads.

and untill then i'm at work till 4 but have viewings from 2 so thats ok ;)
 
maybe we should meet up ;) lol kidding.

well im not planning on been the bitch this time, i've done that before with my other ex who i was with for 3 years. i just felt like a complete muppet after. i've lernt from that. ;)

so im hoping that i will go meet her, get things sorted either way.

go get trashed :D
 
D.P. said:
Must be where I'm going wrong. :(
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same lol


i just spoke to her on the phone and she said she still has the same feelings, but bacause see is joining the RAF she wont get to see me much, with going to the gym, working away with RAF at weekends etc. fair point but its still hard.

on another note, the night has been sorted, start with a few beers at mine and a bash on the PS3 then out to get trollyed :D
 
thats it i guess your right

o well, i will try and stay good mates. what will be will be though. end of the day if we was ment to be together it will work
 
i totally agree its just getting your head round that bit lol.

i never thought we would get together you never know what will happen though do you.
 
your right. that prob is the best thing to do.

after speaking to her this weekend, she's been upset when i've been talking to her, saying it because she knows that she's hurt me, but i keep telling her, i just want her to be happy and if thats with or without me then fine.

she seems ok now, and supprisingly enough going and getting trollied saturday night really helped :D
 
thats the idea anyway lol. If she find's out then that will be that lol. I'm seeing her tonight anyway. Prob not a good idea tho :(
 
and once again i'm back to feeling like crap :(

i was fine, now we kinda giving it some time, and kinda cut communication.

and i'm feeling crap, so going out again to get trolled on Saturday, but for some reason

and im prob slightly jealous that shes pretty close to a lot of guys. sucks at the mo,
 
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