Another Relationship thread

Stinky · 14 May 2007 at 10:00

your right. that prob is the best thing to do.

after speaking to her this weekend, she's been upset when i've been talking to her, saying it because she knows that she's hurt me, but i keep telling her, i just want her to be happy and if thats with or without me then fine.

she seems ok now, and supprisingly enough going and getting trollied saturday night really helped

Bakedgoods · 14 May 2007 at 10:08

That's a god awful excuse she has given you :\

Gaygle · 14 May 2007 at 14:20

Stinky said:
supprisingly enough going and getting trollied saturday night really helped

Told you

Stinky · 14 May 2007 at 17:49

lol i did end up ppulling her mate though. which wasnt the smartest idea.

she dont know that though.

topgun06 · 14 May 2007 at 17:53

Just hope she doesn't find out

Stinky · 15 May 2007 at 18:39

thats the idea anyway lol. If she find's out then that will be that lol. I'm seeing her tonight anyway. Prob not a good idea tho

Stinky · 17 May 2007 at 14:10

and once again i'm back to feeling like crap

i was fine, now we kinda giving it some time, and kinda cut communication.

and i'm feeling crap, so going out again to get trolled on Saturday, but for some reason

and im prob slightly jealous that shes pretty close to a lot of guys. sucks at the mo,

Moley · 17 May 2007 at 14:16

Dude, situations like this are exactly what best friends are for.

Specifically her best friend.

Shag her best mate, get her jealous, make you feel better.

el_dazza · 17 May 2007 at 14:29

jamiemoles said:
Dude, situations like this are exactly what best friends are for.

Specifically her best friend.

Shag her best mate, get her jealous, make you feel better.

Don't go saying that..

I'm saying no more before i get into trouble.

Stinky · 17 May 2007 at 14:37

lol shut it you!!!

i didnt shag her mate i only pulled her theres a difference

benneh · 17 May 2007 at 15:26

Robbie G said:
Don't be too friendly to girls if you want to abuse their privates. Simple.

Excellent advice.

Stinky · 17 May 2007 at 16:14

benneh said:
Excellent advice.

its a good point, cos you then get seen as the firend!! rather than someone that wants more.

then it takes ages to get anywhere

topgun06 · 17 May 2007 at 16:50

Stinky said:
its a good point, cos you then get seen as the firend!! rather than someone that wants more.

then it takes ages to get anywhere

Thats so true dude, the dreaded F word

dhjjessel · 17 May 2007 at 17:35

knip said:
Well I broke up with my bloke cos he was just too god damn nice and a complete doormat, but now hes gone all weird and is saying nasty things to my mates etc etc.
Relationships stink.

too nice? does nice mean the same thing there as it does here? being nice is a good thing
WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU PEOPLE?

topgun06 · 17 May 2007 at 17:43

Hmmm it can get annoying though if someone is too nice, and is always fathing over you

Stinky · 17 May 2007 at 17:54

hmmm, what to do tonight to take my mind of things. i think she is ringing me up later though not great idea. but i still wanna talk to her. crap aint i.

but hey...... dam feelings suck lol.

no money means i cant go to the pub

topgun06 · 17 May 2007 at 17:55

Stinky said:
no money means i cant go to the pub

damn, thats exactly what i was going to suggest

knip · 17 May 2007 at 18:32

dhjjessel said:
too nice? does nice mean the same thing there as it does here? being nice is a good thing
WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU PEOPLE?

Ok read what I posted earlier in this thread and then tell me it wouldnt annoy you

But theres nice and then theres somebody who did anything to avoid a row, if I even raised my voice slightly he would be like "Please dont shout at me"

Was insecure, if I even mentioned an ex of mine who I was still mates with, he would literally burst into tears.

Plus he was one of those "I'll do whatever you want" types who wouldnt think for himself, and believe me that gets annoying when all you want sometimes is for him to get a backbone and say "Oi bitch this is what we're doing, and if you dont like it tough"

And I couldnt just get in the door from work and sit down and do nothing, he'd be on the phone straight away (I work the same hours each day so he knew exactly what time I would be home and phone me 5 mins later) with the "what are you doing etc etc" Felt like I couldnt breath.

Plus I just wasnt physically attracted to him, so that side of things kind of didnt exist either, which isnt me at all.

I dont want somebody to be mean to me, I do want someone who can be independent and think for themselves outside of me, believe me it gets very suffocating.

Depth · 17 May 2007 at 19:01

dhjjessel said:
too nice? does nice mean the same thing there as it does here? being nice is a good thing
WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU PEOPLE?

Nice guys come last = insecure, boring wet blankets who worship their partners like gods come last.

It's nothing to do with being nice, it's just often the people who call themselevs "nice guys" are boring and wimpy, and just don't attract women sexually or mentally.

You get plenty of decent people out there who have lots of success with the opposite member of sex, they just don't moan about it and tell everyone how nice they are.

knip · 17 May 2007 at 19:12

Depth said:
Nice guys come last = insecure, boring wet blankets who worship their partners like gods come last.

It's nothing to do with being nice, it's just often the people who call themselevs "nice guys" are boring and wimpy, and just don't attract women sexually or mentally.

You get plenty of decent people out there who have lots of success with the opposite member of sex, they just don't moan about it and tell everyone how nice they are.

Spot on.
Thats exactly how it was for me. I want a man who gets in my head and stimulates me that way as well as the obvious.

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