Another Relationship Thread
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You could argue that the caste system is contrary to Islamic principles and thus shouldn’t be an issue for him but I doubt it would make a difference. Seems culture dictates far too much.
Its a tough situation to be in and I don’t think there is anything you can do about it, unless you were both willing to make a stand which I’m guessing you both aren’t. All you can do is be there and support her and pray that it goes your way and that her father sees sense.
Its a tough situation to be in and I don’t think there is anything you can do about it, unless you were both willing to make a stand which I’m guessing you both aren’t. All you can do is be there and support her and pray that it goes your way and that her father sees sense.
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Good man, stay centered and chin up
**UPDATE**
Well I took everything into consideration and this is what happend.
I went to a wedding on sunday, my ex's sister got married. Her parents are family friends so I've known her for about 10 years and really liked her. Childhood sweethearts some used to say. She rang me yesterday and told me she loved me and stuff, (she just came out of a realtionship), I asked her if she was on a rebound and she said no.
So we got talking and I admitted I still had feelings for her and she said the same to me. Come today, she said she can't do it and chose her ex over me.
So that's done, and I feel like crap.
Now the current g/f, I decided and spoke to her on the phone about. Decided it was best to call it a day, told her I spoke to my ex and everything and she wasn't upset by it, she goes it's happend now. Again I feel like crap, I don't like being single, but I've done the right thing I guess.
That's it then, ex lies and says she wants me, I go and tell current g/f better of without a relationship.
Well I took everything into consideration and this is what happend.
I went to a wedding on sunday, my ex's sister got married. Her parents are family friends so I've known her for about 10 years and really liked her. Childhood sweethearts some used to say. She rang me yesterday and told me she loved me and stuff, (she just came out of a realtionship), I asked her if she was on a rebound and she said no.
So we got talking and I admitted I still had feelings for her and she said the same to me. Come today, she said she can't do it and chose her ex over me.
So that's done, and I feel like crap.
Now the current g/f, I decided and spoke to her on the phone about. Decided it was best to call it a day, told her I spoke to my ex and everything and she wasn't upset by it, she goes it's happend now. Again I feel like crap, I don't like being single, but I've done the right thing I guess.
That's it then, ex lies and says she wants me, I go and tell current g/f better of without a relationship.
Unfortunately that will have been the right move to make, so for now you'll feel awful but keep your chin up, it won't be easy seeing her around or anything like that so keep busy, get out and see your friends and don't sit inside mulling about. 