Another sad & depressed thread

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Basically this has been coming for a long time but i've tried not to post.. but all of my troubles can be solved or helped in some way by the trusty members of OcUK forum.

Well here goes.. I am 15 so i'm a teeenager. I've gone through that phase where the world hates me and i want to die etc.. So I dont think this can be put down to that. But I have a girlfriend whom is causing me a bit of grief. Basically she has complained to me that I neglect her and don't spend enough time with her. Shes "madly in love" with me.. and wants me to spend all my time with her. I, on the other hand enjoy spending time away from her atm. I do like spending time with her but not all my time. So in school probally a quarter of lunch time is spent with her then I go off with my friends. I see her in every registration, shes around me when I'm with my friends and she comes round my house a lot. But she complains that I'm not with her all the time :( She always starts crying for no apparent reason and when i ask her whats up she says "Nothing" but in such a way that something is up but she wont tell me. So I had a few friends over last night (including benjo ;) :cool: ) and basically for the whole night she blanked me and spoke to me for a few minutes at the most.. and she was flirting with one of my "best" friends whom has been going round to her house without me knowing :eek: and I found out that he was going round hers again on Tuesday. So i said to them both (who were nicely snuggled up together on the floor) "Did you two get upto much last night then?" they said "Yeah it was OK" cos they were together.. Then i said "So do you have anymore interessting nights lined up?" Their response "Ummm nope" "Not that i can think of". Jake's parents (my former friend) are in France this week. My mum and his mum are good friends so she said "So whats Jake doing then?" and Jake's mum said "He's at home this week. Execpt for Tuesday when hes going to Graces". So I knew he was going yet they still decieved me. Then this morning Grace, yet again, looking upset and/or distracted I asked what was up, she asked if we could go for a walk so i said "ok" and we went outside. This is when the whole thing about me neglecting her came out.. and said I'd try to take more notice etc. Then everything was ok. Well sort of.. she "seemed" alright but my spider senses told me something wasnt right.

After she left it still didnt answer my question about her n Jake.. but what are ya guna do eh?

Sorry for the long post, but cheers for reading if you did.

Naffa

/depressed g33k
 
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High five her forehead with a spade, and move on.

She just sounds like a typical whiney brat who craves attention. Cut your losses and find a nice girl who suits you better. :)
 
iCraig said:
High five her forehead with a spade, and move on.

She just sounds like a typical whiney brat who craves attention. Cut your losses and find a nice girl who suits you better. :)

lmao.. :p
 
Sorry to say but she might just be cheating on you, if shes so 'madly in love with you' she wouldn't be going round your friends house, snuggling up with him at your house and stuff.
" There are plenty more fish in the sea- so go fishing!"
 
Not worth it.

Your 15, more hassle than she is worth, if it was me she would already be gone.

There ARE more girls out there, and it seems as though that relationship has broken down and you are just clutching at straws to try and revive it.
 
This sounds like good preparation for marriage mate ;)
YOu are 15 you will probably have at least another 20 relationships before you get married, this giurl is highly unlikely to be of any real consequence to you in 10 yearrs time. Infact you'll probably have forgotten that you even ever knew her.

It sounds to be as though she is clingy, desperate for your attention and playing games with you to make you jealous and get more attention.

Do you need some attention seeker doing your head in or a "mate" who'll make a move on your girl? No and No.

Dump her and find another girlfriend.

Edit: since playing hours of guitar hero last night my fingers aren't typing as well as usual :eek:
 
Send £500 my way, and I will take care of Jake for ya ;)

Or, dump her - she thinks that by cheating on you she can get you jealous and thus get you to give 100% attention to her. Well guess what, relationships aren't about 100% attention all the time, she doesn't understand that, so no point in bothering with her imo.
 
From a brief description she sounds a bit like some attention seeking *****. Just confront her with a question about that Jake as that does seem quite suspicious.
 
hard to say but sounds like there cheating on u :( sorry dude but i would spade her head too hope u got a nice big soil patch in your back garden for the body.
 
If you care enough about her to make effort to have the sort of relationship she wants, then do it - if not, tell her you don't.

Everybody needs different things from relationships and it is nobody's fault if two people's needs aren't compatible.

If you don't pay her the attention she wants she will drift off anyway and things could get messy. Better to have everything out in the open and make a mature decision as to whether the relationship has any future.

Stan :)
 
Sorry not helping!! Dont worry I've had similar experiences back in the day, seriously don't worry about it. Find someone better!
 
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Some of these replies have made me laugh :D

Maybe theres a few things I should mention about her..

About a year ago we got together and were not officially going out as neither of us had asked the other out.. But it was a relationship and we were seeing each other etc. Then came the Summer holidays so I fell out of touch for what must have been no more than a week. Then I got a nice MSN message from someone I dont like asking me if I wanted to be with her and I said "I'm not sure" cos we wernt officially going out or anything. Then the person on MSN said "Goog, cos shes going out with joe" another n00b I dont like.. then she said "and theyve had sex". Now that made me stop eating for about 4 days i think. Then I phoned her and asked her about it and she said that they were going out but they didnt have sex.. Every single person I know that knows either one of them has told me its true.. everyone execpt her.. So me being the stupid fool said that id go back out with her.. and all of that old malarky..

There was another thing but ive forgotten it :eek:
 
Dump her, you will feel better about it when youve had a free upgrade to someone better.

Think of her as a internet connection, a bad, nasty 56k one.
 
Yewen said:
Dump her, you will feel better about it when youve had a free upgrade to someone better.

Think of her as a internet connection, a bad, nasty 56k one.
lmao :D :p
 
Would you like my friend and me to take her down for you, my friend is 6ft and plays rugby, im 5ft10 and eats jaffa cakes ( only 1g of fat per cake).
 
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