Anyone else a bit down lately ?
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McDaniel said:yea im feeling down, mainly cos i fancy the pants of a girl who im really close with but she has a boyfriend (though they are on the verge of breaking up) i dont wanna be a rebound guy however
My girlfriend got with me not long after leaving her ex boyfriend.
6 months later we're still together and as strong as ever.
Rebounds can, and do, work.
iCraig said:Gah, friends zone = pain.
Just play it cool and do everything she wants that her boyfriend doesn't, be her friend but constantly flirt and show her that you want her.
0-Sexty in under 2 days.
Currently what im doing, she said i have the good quality parts of her boyfriend and better. And i flirt with her everyday, she actually has seen me mor ethen him recently
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I know what you're going through. I lost all hope and faith in life a long time ago. There's not really any big secret I or anyone else can tell you. You just have to keep on going or prepare yourself for death, and that's never a good option however you feel.
I'd suggest talking with your GP, antidepressants and psychotherapy may be of use to you and it's definitely worth exploring. In any case they'll be more help at fixing these problems than a forum.
E-mail and msn in trust if you feel like talking to someone, although I certainly recommend a professional above me.
I'd suggest talking with your GP, antidepressants and psychotherapy may be of use to you and it's definitely worth exploring. In any case they'll be more help at fixing these problems than a forum.
E-mail and msn in trust if you feel like talking to someone, although I certainly recommend a professional above me.
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Its good to get things off your chest i agree.
I went to uni after passing all my IT courses too with good grades, Lasted a couple of months and left, had £1500 dept same as you im sure (ive still got £400).
If you have real (i mean not super ficial) mates then you dont need to see them every day / week. friends will stick around etc. i dont see some of my mates for weeks / months but i can still say their true friends.
About the Girl. Same old same old. I know it hurts but ive been thier too, YOU WILL get over it. but i know saying that makes no difference atall. Also i had the same problem with the job, man sounds so familier. but persistance got me through!!!!!!!!!!
my advice:
Keep going, dont get down, you will get their in the end!! KEEP SMILING
I went to uni after passing all my IT courses too with good grades, Lasted a couple of months and left, had £1500 dept same as you im sure (ive still got £400).
If you have real (i mean not super ficial) mates then you dont need to see them every day / week. friends will stick around etc. i dont see some of my mates for weeks / months but i can still say their true friends.
About the Girl. Same old same old. I know it hurts but ive been thier too, YOU WILL get over it. but i know saying that makes no difference atall. Also i had the same problem with the job, man sounds so familier. but persistance got me through!!!!!!!!!!
my advice:
Keep going, dont get down, you will get their in the end!! KEEP SMILING
That is Weird, I am also feeling quite down at the moment and my situation sounds very similar to yours, just a year behind you! (even did a national diploma in ICT and got DDD 
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that is strange
I have decided to not go to university as I think im not cut out for it
Im doing an MCDST which should help me get a pretty good starting job (fingers crossed)
I think that once I get a decent job i will relax and enjoy myself a lot more
It feels a lot better to have a vision and some ambition
remember, you have to work very hard if you want something (I like the feeling that I get when im trying very hard at something, it drives me to try even harder)
)that is strange
I have decided to not go to university as I think im not cut out for it
Im doing an MCDST which should help me get a pretty good starting job (fingers crossed)
I think that once I get a decent job i will relax and enjoy myself a lot more
It feels a lot better to have a vision and some ambition
remember, you have to work very hard if you want something (I like the feeling that I get when im trying very hard at something, it drives me to try even harder)
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Hi,
I was in the exact same position as you. I left college with my triple distinction grade and off to University. I didn't enjoy it at all. The place wasn't for me. I dropped out feeling depressed and the thought of failing wasn't great considering I've always worked hard and achieved something. I started a I.T. Support role after dropping out, which was fun initially however I decided to find a University that would suit me (a vocational type degree that was more geared to continuing from a national diploma, rather than going to an academic university). The job got boring and the pay sucked. I didn't fancy staying and climbing that imaginary bent ladder. It was the best decision I made going back to Uni and it worked out great. Am loving it and cannot wait until I start my second year.
If you fancy a chat, email me. Best of luck
I was in the exact same position as you. I left college with my triple distinction grade and off to University. I didn't enjoy it at all. The place wasn't for me. I dropped out feeling depressed and the thought of failing wasn't great considering I've always worked hard and achieved something. I started a I.T. Support role after dropping out, which was fun initially however I decided to find a University that would suit me (a vocational type degree that was more geared to continuing from a national diploma, rather than going to an academic university). The job got boring and the pay sucked. I didn't fancy staying and climbing that imaginary bent ladder. It was the best decision I made going back to Uni and it worked out great. Am loving it and cannot wait until I start my second year.
If you fancy a chat, email me. Best of luck
triggerthat said:Hi,
I was in the exact same position as you. I left college with my triple distinction grade and off to University. I didn't enjoy it at all. The place wasn't for me. I dropped out feeling depressed and the thought of failing wasn't great considering I've always worked hard and achieved something. I started a I.T. Support role after dropping out, which was fun initially however I decided to find a University that would suit me (a vocational type degree that was more geared to continuing from a national diploma, rather than going to an academic university). The job got boring and the pay sucked. I didn't fancy staying and climbing that imaginary bent ladder. It was the best decision I made going back to Uni and it worked out great. Am loving it and cannot wait until I start my second year.
If you fancy a chat, email me. Best of luck
What do you study now ?
O and the girl has pretty much closed me out of her life now having met "charlie". Seems he is filling my position rather well.