bah, more relationship crud, cheating ect.. :(

Dreadi said:
Shes gonna run you down man, it'll be stupidly hard but you need to end it and stop being blinded by the love you have. A relationship without trust is like a fish out of water
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You need to stop being walked on imo. Kick her out and see if you mean as much to her as she does to you. She's taking the ****.
 
It's common that when people ask for advice on such matters, that when they hear that which they do not want to hear, they get ultra-defensive, start claiming that people "just don't understand" and so forth.

This is a sign that the advice being given to you is probably correct, because it's making you face decisions you really don't want to (or feel emotionally unable to) make for yourself.

For my opinion, you used to love her, now it's been twisted into something else. You love her in an irrational/obsessional manner, much like a stalker - and it'll only get worse until you cut her loose, or seek psychiatric excuses after she's screwed you over for the umpteenth time and you're up in court on a manslaughter charge.
 
Grow a pair and tell her to **** off. Shes a ****.
Nowt personal, ***** just arent worth it. Go find a decent lady that doesnt feel the need to **** anything with a penis.
 
dump her now. the short amount of pain you'll feel when you do it won't be anything compared to the long painful heartache you'll have knowing that she's cheating on you and that you keep letting her.
 
Been there, done that and made a mockery of myself to this whole forum and everyone I knew. :o

The last thing you want to happen (to break up with her) is exactly the thing that needs to happen and should have happened the first time she cheated. It's extremely difficult and the sheer thought of it hurts, I know. It either happens now, or many months down the line and you will fall a lot harder and end-up in a lot more pain.

Nothing you/we do/say will make it easier, but the sooner you do it the better.
 
OvertoneBliss said:
Been there, done that and made a mockery of myself to this whole forum and everyone I knew. :o

The last thing you want to happen (to break up with her) is exactly the thing that needs to happen and should have happened the first time she cheated. It's extremely difficult and the sheer thought of it hurts, I know. It either happens now, or many months down the line and you will fall a lot harder and end-up in a lot more pain.

Nothing you/we do/say will make it easier, but the sooner you do it the better.
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I'm agreeing with Phil here: Be done with it. Trust me on this, its not worth it - It'll have a knock-on effect in your future relationships, and you don't want to be 'that guy' who doesn't trust someone.

End it, move on.
 
Normally I'm all for sorting things out, but this one sounds like it's not worth the bother.

End it. Kick her out the flat.
 
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