whats the fuss about
you had a BT problem that you ISP refused to deal with, or had little knowledge about (do ISP staff ever know about this stuff ? trying to get an ISP to admit a problem with a line is hard, no matter what ADSL)
most of your problems relate to this BT line fault. Line drops etc.. will have been down to the poor line, not your modem.
and quoting speeds you wont receive is common to the whole ADSL industry, not just Be.
same with a contract cancellation notice period, with a charge if you want it quicker. THis is normal something everyone does
yes they were late in connecting you, but i cant really see anything other than that wrong ? i'd be a rich man if i had £1 for every thread on here where ISP staff couldnt diagnose Line problems it is afterall a BT fault, something they wouldnt have known anything about....