Been dumped :-(

MarkDavis

MarkDavis

MarkDavis

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Three years of great times, good times, bad times, and most recently lots of arguments. At times, I haven't behaved in the best way, and neither has she. Been on the cards for a while and I've wondered more than once if we were really that compatible but I did care about her and I still have a huge sense of loss even if she was a bit too much for me at times.

The hardest thing is sudden adjustment from having someone in your life and then not having them there. Why aren't these things ever a 'soft landing'?

And why do women do that won't answer the phone or respond to messages thing, instead of just saying things are finished and that they don't want any more contact?

Gutted, feeling low, and full of mixed emotions :(
 
Don't worry bud, it's hard now but it seems like you know it was the right decision.

Things will get better. Spend some time with some mates and I'm sure you'll be feeling better eventually :)
 
Just go out and get the old knob polished. Some good old fashioned, drunken no-strings attached sex is a perfect remedy.
 
its very hard at first but you will soon learn that you never needed her in the first place and will be living it up with some other bird sooner or later. you will get there in the end buddy
 
sux4u, get well soon? honestly though, give it some time and get back in the game, everyone here says it, and it get said for a reason you need to move on with your life to move on and be happy, this happened for a reason you didnt work together so thats that, no regret no thinking and then over thinking just move onto the next day.
 
It will have been for best... try not to contact her, just accept shes out ur life, if you speak to her as a friend after all this thats upto you, but you cant speak to her as a friend during the break up process. Keep busy.
 
Time with friends and family, time for yourself, just relax a little and try and enjoy life again.
 
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Keep busy, go out with your mates and you will be fine. Plenty of more people out there, so don't worry. No point feeling sad about something which wasn't really working in the end, if you both kept arguing and stuff.

Try not to contact her though, if she wants to talk she will contact you.
 
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