Being 'on a break' in a relationship..

Murf said:
You couldn't pay me to date an 18yr old. Teenage girls are the most annoying thing on the planet.
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I met my girlfriend when she was 17 and I was almost 20. Been together 6 years now and she is currently waiting for the question haha.

The few couple month relationships before that were a waste of time though. I almost gave up before this one.
 
Breaks mean its usually over in my experience. I remember a number of yrs ago i was dating someone and we ended up having a break, never called or texted each other and that was that in a nutshell.

She moved on i suppose and i moved on as well.
 
That's the thing she's still constantly texting me, wake up to texts, texts me throughout the day whilst she's at work.

Doing the man thing in ignoring them completely for ages.
 
Yes, we were on a break for around 6 months, but are now happily married with 2 children. We had however been together for about 3 years and lived together for most of that time.
 
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3 months? Yeah sounds like you need some time apart.

Spend the time wisely, do a evening class in something you enjoy, go on vacation somewhere you read about and subsequently become interested in.

Then after the break get back together and it will the same as you left it.
 
funny everyone says on a break means it's over, when imo on a break means a very short term emotional spaz where the girl feels unloved and wants you to prove your love so "leaves" you and waits to see what you do next.

i'm shocked at how quickly the op suggested looking for the next girl as well. even if i've just had 3/4 dates with a girl and decide it's not working, i'm not instantly thinking ok next girl.

everyone seems to be ****ging the girl off but from what you've put i'd say you're the one making all the mistakes here, and you're 5 years older.
 
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