What scales do you have? Are you not concerned that your weight changes by 5lbs in 24 hours? (Assuming your weighing at the same time every day?) Doesn't look right to me?
Current bodyfat is 22 and I'd like to get it down to 16 or so.
I would like to lose a little more, but with it only being a week until the big run, i'm making a big effort to eat everything back just to ensure any energy stores are full
I don't feel comfortable unless I'm looking "stocky" but you can't be stocky and lean
I just don't seem to be able to maintain the number of calories that I've read I'm supposed to work with (~1700/1800 ish).
What's your current weight?
You may need more than 1800 and still be in a deficit.
I'm looking at it from a view if he puts on muscle, that new muscle will require more calories to maintain, than less muscle mass would.
Even if you're sedentary at 96kg I would guess 1600-1800 calories is too big a deficit to be sustainable.
But people like Subby and Andy and others have shown me that actually as long as you're progressing that you shouldn't feel you're seeking attention, after all we all have different goals and perceptions.
I was under the impression that lifting is actually a very good tool for it!
the workouts themselves are just as intensive as a cardio session if you want them to be.
A high intense weights workout will spike your metabolism higher than steady state cardio for the same period of time.
Someone who is 1m75 who is 70kg and has more lean muscle mass than someone who is 1m75 and also 70kg will have a higher BMR
I can easily end a lifting session flat on my back heavy breathing. A maintained 160bpm doesn't tell the full story of how effective one type of exercise is vs another at a given goal.
However for personal goals my desire to build muscle and drop fat
Do you need weights to lose weight? No not at all. Is it advisable? Yes - not only for bone strengthening
Something ive just come across is that kg weight x 10 is about the expected amount of carbs in grams needed to refill muscle glycogen, so for me that's going to look something like 700g of carbs spread over 48 hours.