Bit of a pickle - women trouble....

Black Knight said:
I think the probelm here is that if you want your relationship to work, then a sacrifice is going to have to be made by one or both of you. As it is, you will find it hard to conduct a relationship where your time together is so limited.

The key is to talk...
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She has recently finished uni n is just starting out on her career. I wouldnt want to stand in the way of that and know how important a career is to her. When I finish my masters I am looking to dive straight into a career and the only problem is the different work hours due to the different career paths we are taking.
 
OMFG you will NOT believe what has jus happened!

My gf has texted me sayin her left ear is burning and as such what am i saying about her!!!! :eek: :eek: :eek:
 
I am actually thinking about spending £25 on a taxi to go n see her now as she wants to know what I'm "thinking" about and think it would be better said in person.
 
OK peeps I have spoken to her on the phone for the past 40 mins.....

I wanted to get a taxi but she said she wanted to talk on the phone instead. We discussed the whole future working hours thing and she admitted that if it carries on as it is (with her working 5-11) that it will put too much of a strain on the relationship n it will end. She said that she does not know if this will be the case for her future hours tho. Altho realisitically she said the hours would remain the same :(

We also discussed in detail me not opening up to her enough and how I do not like to discuss my feelings etc with her for fear of rejection etc etc (as most peeps are)...

She honestly thought that I was calling her to tell her it was over and not to discuss how things look for the future.

Thing is.... the future aint exactly looking bright is it?!?
 
To be honest I dont think i would be too phased if we just became friends n she moves on with another fella. I think we could have a good friendship n mebbe that would be more inportant than a poor relationship..... :confused:

**EDIT** am deffo going to bed now as I got uni tomorra. I shall make another post when i get back 2morra night - please feel free to post any suggestions in the meantime and more importantly........


Thankyou for listening!
 
**UPDATE**

have again spoken with the current gf n she is gettin a lil concerned with my behaviour of late..... she suspects something but is not 100% what.

The new lass is still well up for meetin up n goin out for drinks this weekend. I think that I am gonna go out for drinks n jus see what happens. BUT before any of you try n chastise me may I point out thusly: I will not be tryin to get my leg over!! I don't sleep with lasses on a whim n especially when I first meet em!

IF she tries anythin I am gonna get the hell outta there. She has since mentioned that her cousin finds me attractive and has hinted that they like to "share" :eek: I aint no brad pitt and god knows what any woman would see in me but if they try anythin then I at least know where I stand!

After careful thought I feel that the nekkid pics etc that this lass has sent are totally innapropriate considerin we have only known each other such a short time! As such she can't really be the type that you would take home and introduce to your mother!

I really don't see anything happening between us and have decided to stick it out with the current gf altho I am goin out for drinks solely outta pure curiousity!

**EDIT** surely this doesnt make me a bad person? :confused:
 
i am still not 100% sure what i'm gonna do now - have been asking mates at uni, bus drivers and even my hairdresser what I should do - there just seems to be too many conflicting arguments! :(
 
aaahhhh well alas I dont wanna get banned for em!

So this new lass just aint gonna cut the mustard I reckon - who in their right mind sends nekkid pics to someone who they havent met (as previously mentioned n commented upon).

My next question is:

Assuming I go n have drinks with this lass when (if at all?) should I mention that I am with someone else instead?
 
Wooooaahhhhhh back up a lil first! Didn't I previously mention that if I went to go for drinks I WOULDN'T sleep with her/them? :confused:
 
ahh fair dos :) I genuinely don't think my willpower can be usurped so easily! I am just curious to see what I am gonna be missing out on :p
 
Stringy said:
The new lass hardly sounds like a keeper. It's never usually the good ones who feel the need to send naked pics and boast of possible three way action to reel guys in (although I may be wrong).
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Quoted for the truth! But wouldnt you at least be a lil curious to see what she/they are like?

**EDIT** "see" meaning in person of course!
 
Following another long convo with the current missus - she feels that my concerns RE: the anti-social hours she currently works should be a bridge to be crossed once we reach it and not get ahead of ourselves.

On another note my family think that my missus is the best thing since sliced bread and has been really good for me and ironically enough her family really think the world of me too - Its just a keraaazy situation :(

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If you saw me and my missus together you would say we were a great couple. We look and get on really well together and it has been commented on by our families and friends alike.....
 
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It's all sorted - I called the new lass n told her I was seein someone :eek: She wasn't too happy about it and said she was peeved as this was the usual thing that happens to her.

I am goin round my gfs tonight n gonna give her some sweet luvvin n try n forget this whole ordeal! It has deffo made me think more about her and how I feel about her n I deffo reckon I have made the right choice! (damn they were some fine pics tho - I gotta delete them too in case the gf finds them :( )

PS

Am gonna keep my mobile turned off for the next week or so while I am with the gf in case a certain someone tries to boil some bunnies :eek:

PPS

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lol mebbe i shoulda put (j/k) after that last one :p

**EDIT** nice to see a fellow Barts person havin trained there back in the 90s
 
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