So you need both partners to be earning the UK average wage but also live somewhere with house prices not above the UK average, quite a tricky balance. Considering your FTB is also likely to be at the age where people want to stat a family and it doesn't take a rocket scientist to see what is wrong with this picture.
Indeed. It pushes everything in life later. And a compromise has to be made.
Do you start a family later or not at all?
Do you move somewhere cheaper? But you might need family support for your own family etc.
Do you just carry on renting and take the hit when you're older?
To have what my parents have is impossible.
A paid off mortgage early
in a big house,
final salary pension,
a family with 3 kids
average jobs
no clever financial stuff.
Myself. I see me ending up
Modest house (probably half or 1/3 value of theirs)
No family
Livable (I hope) pension
House paid off late
And that's with no unexpected negatives.
Not moaning. Life isn't fair. And I have more than a lot. But if I'm fortunate with my job. And it's above average, and I'm having to make compromises.. You can see how others don't stand a chance