Hey hey hey, that last paragraph is uncalled for.It's not crazy at all.
Building Regs are there to ensure any construction work is undertaken safely and to meet standards.
You do sound like you're attempting to become a cowboy builder who doesn't want to meet those standards.
I even stated I'll be contacting them and paying what needs to be paid.
It's extra funds which I need to raise, of course I'm going to be grumpy about it.
Not sure how a person doing their own building works can possibly make them a cow boy builder, especially if they plan to go above and beyond the regulations in place.