Can't believe I'm doing this...

Destination · 15 Mar 2012 at 21:58

David_VI said:
Grass is always greener? Want what you can't have?

Maybe if he had an Asian he'd be looking at pics of his Ex

Doubt it

wnb · 15 Mar 2012 at 22:30

.Sean said:
I've now got my very own OcUK relationship thread. I've got no where else to go.

Girlfriend of 2 years found questionable images on one of my old hard drives after she went through my PC while I was out. Came home to an "I'm sorry" text message. I asked what was up, she told me she found a folder full of naked Asian girls.

Queue a very long night of apologizing and comforting as best as I could, but it really didn't work at all. I explained to her that I forgot I even had that sort of stuff on my PC and that it meant nothing. This didn't help, she's just simply too self conscious. Her theory is that I shouldn't have to ever use pornography or look at/think about other women. She thinks that she's not perfect to me, not beautiful, etc. which is all of course not true. I think she's amazing and one of the best things that's ever happened to me. She is beautiful, I love her. Again, none of this got through to her.

Next question was if I have ever watched porn while we've been dating. I couldn't lie to her and I told her I have, but it doesn't make me some sort of scumbag or mean that I love her/think of her any less. I couldn't even explain why men do it, just that we do.

She told me she felt sick/disgusted and wanted me to leave her alone.

What the hell do I do now? I wish I just lied to her but I couldn't bring myself to do it..

Jesus Christ tell her to get a grip! It's only porn its time she realised what the internet was actually for. My wife knows I watch it and in the past we have watched it together (she likes the ones with a story)

Jonnybmac · 15 Mar 2012 at 23:42

Haha... Just tell her that its nothing personal and you just enjoy a good ol' tug. Try explaining being caught knocking one out just after recent sex whilst she was assumed asleep and you were on the pc!

Theres two kinds of people in the world, w****** and liars.

/\ndy · 16 Mar 2012 at 00:44

women logic

btw i found an old picture of you op

RoboCod · 16 Mar 2012 at 03:41

Post the Asian photos along with pics of your GF, we can then advise further

Seriously though, if my GF was so uptight about my porn stash I wouldn't be with her, she's trying to change the person you are :\

i5aces · 16 Mar 2012 at 08:34

Fragalot said:
If she can't handle a porn folder you are probably better off without her. Your relationship probably has bigger problems already.

so true

Natwee · 16 Mar 2012 at 09:54

Pixel said:
Unless she willingly has sex with you at the drop of a hat, whenever, and wherever you are, then she has absolutely no right to tell you that you can't have porn, or jack it solo.

Even if she does, she still cant really complain!

I dont think Ive ever said no to my bf, but I know he has still watched porn, and he knows I do. Its really not an issue at all. we just laugh about it.

OPs gf needs to get a grip.