Ive been cheated on.. but as the saying goes:
"Whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger... eventually"
It was my first serious girlfriend and we had been dating for about 5 months.
She needed to move out the place she was renting and she was worried about finding somewhere else.
I stupidly suggested "Why dont we rent a place together" to which she obviously agreed.
She was at college so I agreed I would pay the bills and square up her overdraft to help her finish her course and have little to worry about so she could concentrate on college.
My Mum and Dad totally hated the idea... and they didnt like her either, they just thought she wasnt right for me. My Dad told me that if I moved out, I would be banned from the house. He'd tried everything else to convince me to stay but I was having none of it so this was his final attempt to make me see sense. I was young and thought I knew it all and parents knew nothing
It caused a lot of stress for my folks. My Dad suffered an heart attack about 6 weeks after me moving out and passed away. This was his 3rd Heart Attack he'd had in his life.
While all this was going on, money became tight what with supporting 2 people on one wage while one is at college.
I asked the girlfriend to goto the funeral, she said "I cant get the time off college" - ???
After I literally begged her to come, she agreed but said she would meet me at the Church then would have to goto College straight after? The same morning, before I left the flat, I gave her £100 or so to put in her bank to square her overdraft.
When she met me at the church, she said "I left the money on the bus by mistake"?
This was after she goes out one night and comes home at about 5AM saying "I coulnt get a taxi". We lived a 15 minute walk from town and the club closed at 3am.
Just before this, she rings me one night with my Bankcard (Which I gave her), literally shouting at me because theres no money in the account and im a terrible boyfriend and her friends think im a jerk.
Anyway, a week later, she's becoming more and more distant and one day tells me "I need some space".
I move out the flat into a mates to give her time to get her head straight. We then have a phone conversation a few days later with her saying it was time to end it? No **** Sherlock.
I make an unnannounced visit to the flat knowing she was at work with a mates van to clear out EVERYTHING which was mine.. which was everything in the flat as the only thing she bought was a bread bin.
Anyway, walk in the bedroom to find an empty "morning after" pill packet. When asked she said "I cant tell you about that, I promised someone I wouldnt tell" ???
I found out that she was seeing someone else.
That was MANY years ago, I now have a loving wife and child and couldnt be happier.
It is true though, that relationship did change me and did I have since saw relationships differently.
Im not bitter, but if my ex is reading this:
I hope your left tittie turns blue and drops off.
Sorry about the long post.. only just realised.
"Whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger... eventually"
It was my first serious girlfriend and we had been dating for about 5 months.
She needed to move out the place she was renting and she was worried about finding somewhere else.
I stupidly suggested "Why dont we rent a place together" to which she obviously agreed.
She was at college so I agreed I would pay the bills and square up her overdraft to help her finish her course and have little to worry about so she could concentrate on college.
My Mum and Dad totally hated the idea... and they didnt like her either, they just thought she wasnt right for me. My Dad told me that if I moved out, I would be banned from the house. He'd tried everything else to convince me to stay but I was having none of it so this was his final attempt to make me see sense. I was young and thought I knew it all and parents knew nothing
It caused a lot of stress for my folks. My Dad suffered an heart attack about 6 weeks after me moving out and passed away. This was his 3rd Heart Attack he'd had in his life.
While all this was going on, money became tight what with supporting 2 people on one wage while one is at college.
I asked the girlfriend to goto the funeral, she said "I cant get the time off college" - ???
After I literally begged her to come, she agreed but said she would meet me at the Church then would have to goto College straight after? The same morning, before I left the flat, I gave her £100 or so to put in her bank to square her overdraft.
When she met me at the church, she said "I left the money on the bus by mistake"?
This was after she goes out one night and comes home at about 5AM saying "I coulnt get a taxi". We lived a 15 minute walk from town and the club closed at 3am.
Just before this, she rings me one night with my Bankcard (Which I gave her), literally shouting at me because theres no money in the account and im a terrible boyfriend and her friends think im a jerk.
Anyway, a week later, she's becoming more and more distant and one day tells me "I need some space".
I move out the flat into a mates to give her time to get her head straight. We then have a phone conversation a few days later with her saying it was time to end it? No **** Sherlock.
I make an unnannounced visit to the flat knowing she was at work with a mates van to clear out EVERYTHING which was mine.. which was everything in the flat as the only thing she bought was a bread bin.
Anyway, walk in the bedroom to find an empty "morning after" pill packet. When asked she said "I cant tell you about that, I promised someone I wouldnt tell" ???
I found out that she was seeing someone else.
That was MANY years ago, I now have a loving wife and child and couldnt be happier.
It is true though, that relationship did change me and did I have since saw relationships differently.
Im not bitter, but if my ex is reading this:
I hope your left tittie turns blue and drops off.
Sorry about the long post.. only just realised.
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. Im glad that things turned out for you again. I was angry at what happened to me, im not sure what i would have done in your situation.
