Cheating Ex.. how would you react to this?

Chandler_90 said:
My ex gf left me in September of 2014

She left me with a mortgage, £12,000 worth of debt (which was all in my name but we shared the card for purchases such as holidays and furnishings for our house) and her phone contract payments (£80 a month for 6 months) which I didn't notice were still coming out of my bills account.. plus she refused to pay any solicitor fees to remove her from the mortgage as she had just found out she was pregnant.



How would you react?
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Chandler_90 said:
I'll be civil as I'm that kind of person, I'm generally easy going and kind tbh.. some of the peeps I know from here will attain to that.

I was just curious on opinions, I'm not the kind to kick off and ruin things.

I'm not putting pics up as if the current gf gets wind I'll get shafted lol

I've got no feelings for my ex, honestly don't.
I've moved on now.. better place etc..
I just resent people who do things like this and get away without any repercussions.
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After reading you're op i think you do, plus i don't think anyone asked you the underlined above, so i don't get why you pointed that out :)
 
Arazi said:
After reading you're op i think you do, plus i don't think anyone asked you the underlined above, so i don't get why you pointed that out :)
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I'd like to point out that no offense but woman are more shallow then the man is and the man doesn't pass on damage either but just to point out faults of the partner whereas the woman would pass on damage.

It takes on average 3-5 years for the man to get over it whereas the woman doesn't and just emotionally get mad with another person.

What do you think ;-)?

Either way i think it is a sad fate varying on the relationship.

Hate to say this thinking it is about stupid religion..but the man is one step closer to love/god then the woman is and thus incompatible, woman uses emotion but the man uses love which has nothing to do with the way woman uses emotion and the man has a much better understanding of love then the woman is.

Anyway's i'd recommend you reading this free e book gives a lot of food for thought at the link below.

http://thewayhomeorfacethefire.info/

edit also i recommend this > https://100777.com/spiritual/beings_having_a_physical_experience
 
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You poor broken people.

Hello then just blank her. Not going to change anything is. Just make u look a C word.
 
Changed behavior is the best apology and actions speak louder than words.

Prevention is better than cure.

Better to remain silent and be thought as a fool then to speak and remove all doubt.

A true friend will never leave you under all circumstances.

Doing drugs or alcohol is a fools paradise.

A definite factor in getting a lie believed is the size of the lie. The broad mass of the people, in the simplicity of their hearts, more easily fall victim to a big lie than to a small one.

The individual is handicapped by coming face to face with a conspiracy so monstrous he cannot believe it exists

The trick of creating FAKE threats, and enemies is one of the oldest, and most effective way to scare people into accepting new "solutions" or laws.

12:9 And the great dragon was cast out, that old serpent, called the Devil, and Satan, which deceiveth the whole world: he was cast out to the earth, and his angels (you - Luke 9:55) were cast out with him - Revelation 12:9 from the King of King´s Bible

The "Self" is like a spoiled child running around the universe, demanding things and thinking it created and owns the world, instead of God

You are your own worst enemy - enemy within.

A Man takes responsibility for his own actions and cannot blame others, only himself.

Those who laugh at them selves will learn to hate it.

Do or do not, there is no try.

There is no coincidence everything is planned down to the smallest detail.

Nothing is random, it is governed by chance.

Too repent via higher self, one has to view one's self in the mirror and take it very seriously.

Taking one self seriously is superior discipline of need and not want.

Those who have the most have a lot to worry about and become slaves to their own possessions, it is he who needs the least.

To understand the big picture of god means having the time of your life everyday and praying with out ceasing 24/7.

Half truth's never make a whole truth.

The more element of truth in a lie, the better.

The fact is self evident.


I am now done, as for me being drunk or on glue or whatever, nope i am sober here feeling energetic just words of wisdom, knowing i absorbed love of the light which is what i am on, you will feel energetic and love all things, feel plasid and just back off.


 
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If you're going to burst in and cause a scene, you'll want to make sure you get it right.
 
lltfdaniel said:
I wouldn't react because i would never be in that situation financially.

I'd stay single but then those who want a partner better be careful with things like this.

Plus i would never put my self on the line as it would affect my behaviour like with op with rage i think or with any other funny behavior like revenge i wouldn't put my self on the line to become like that.

Am happy by not giving a damn with nothing on the line then those who can't are worst off then my self.
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lltfdaniel said:
Changed behavior is the best apology and actions speak louder than words.

Prevention is better than cure.

Better to remain silent and be thought as a fool then to speak and remove all doubt.

A true friend will never leave you under all circumstances.

Doing drugs or alcohol is a fools paradise.

A definite factor in getting a lie believed is the size of the lie. The broad mass of the people, in the simplicity of their hearts, more easily fall victim to a big lie than to a small one.

The individual is handicapped by coming face to face with a conspiracy so monstrous he cannot believe it exists

The trick of creating FAKE threats, and enemies is one of the oldest, and most effective way to scare people into accepting new "solutions" or laws.

12:9 And the great dragon was cast out, that old serpent, called the Devil, and Satan, which deceiveth the whole world: he was cast out to the earth, and his angels (you - Luke 9:55) were cast out with him - Revelation 12:9 from the King of King´s Bible

The "Self" is like a spoiled child running around the universe, demanding things and thinking it created and owns the world, instead of God
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Wow, another one.
 
lltfdaniel said:
Changed behavior is the best apology and actions speak louder than words.

Prevention is better than cure.

Better to remain silent and be thought as a fool then to speak and remove all doubt.

A true friend will never leave you under all circumstances.

Doing drugs or alcohol is a fools paradise.

A definite factor in getting a lie believed is the size of the lie. The broad mass of the people, in the simplicity of their hearts, more easily fall victim to a big lie than to a small one.

The individual is handicapped by coming face to face with a conspiracy so monstrous he cannot believe it exists

The trick of creating FAKE threats, and enemies is one of the oldest, and most effective way to scare people into accepting new "solutions" or laws.

12:9 And the great dragon was cast out, that old serpent, called the Devil, and Satan, which deceiveth the whole world: he was cast out to the earth, and his angels (you - Luke 9:55) were cast out with him - Revelation 12:9 from the King of King´s Bible

The "Self" is like a spoiled child running around the universe, demanding things and thinking it created and owns the world, instead of God

You are your own worst enemy - enemy within.

A Man takes responsibility for his own actions and cannot blame others, only himself.
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Have you been drinking? Go for a lie down, nutter.
 
413x said:
I'm with the

Show her you have completely moved on and shake his hand and say hi.

Even slip in 'thanks for the save on that one' said with a smile.
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When you or them are about to leave:

"Cheers for getting her to show her true colours mate. You're the best."
 
lltfdaniel said:
Changed behavior is the best apology and actions speak louder than words.

Prevention is better than cure.

Better to remain silent and be thought as a fool then to speak and remove all doubt.

A true friend will never leave you under all circumstances.

Doing drugs or alcohol is a fools paradise.

A definite factor in getting a lie believed is the size of the lie. The broad mass of the people, in the simplicity of their hearts, more easily fall victim to a big lie than to a small one.

The individual is handicapped by coming face to face with a conspiracy so monstrous he cannot believe it exists

The trick of creating FAKE threats, and enemies is one of the oldest, and most effective way to scare people into accepting new "solutions" or laws.

12:9 And the great dragon was cast out, that old serpent, called the Devil, and Satan, which deceiveth the whole world: he was cast out to the earth, and his angels (you - Luke 9:55) were cast out with him - Revelation 12:9 from the King of King´s Bible

The "Self" is like a spoiled child running around the universe, demanding things and thinking it created and owns the world, instead of God

You are your own worst enemy - enemy within.

A Man takes responsibility for his own actions and cannot blame others, only himself.

Those who laugh at them selves will learn to hate it.

Do or do not, there is no try.
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Are you on glue?
 
I would consider how your current partner might feel if you showed her that your ex still bothers you as much as she seems to. But im a grown up, so your mileage may vary.
 
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