This. Worth getting DNA test maybe?
Cheating
- Thread starter rishy
- Start date
This. Worth getting DNA test maybe?
I was just about to say the same thing, OP mentioned picking her up from nursery school and we're talking about a 7 year affair... it sounds like a horrible situation to be in stay strong OP.
It sounds like it was just a marriage of convenience for her... the only thing I'm wondering is why she hasn't broke up with OP sooner to be with him? he must either have a wife himself or has just been stringing her along for sex and doesn't want to be in a relationship with her.
Last edited:
Associate
- Joined
- 12 May 2005
- Posts
- 1,785
+1 First thing I thought was false paternity.
Soldato
- Joined
- 25 Apr 2010
- Posts
- 5,318
- Location
- Ipswich
Is this where we I also suggest an STD test? No idea where else the lover has been dipping his wick.
Wife and her new fella are obviously made for each other. Largely as I suspect no one else can understand them.
I don't see how people can discuss matters of such importance in such a ridiculously infantile way.
Makes Comic Sans on a CV look educated.
alternatively you could turn up and give him your blessing , shake his hand and say "good luck to you both" your missus will be shocked as hell
the other guy likely doesn't want her anyway as I already said
Dear god, this is awesome. please do this!
May aswell get it all done now, dragging it out isn't going to help anyone.
- Joined
- 4 Jan 2013
- Posts
- 3,785
You need to be REALLY rational right about now.
Don't go down the point scoring route, or trying to get even. You'll be playing a dangerous game with a toxic person.
Have a first mover advantage, make an urgent appointment with a solicitor or two, and get proper legal advice.
There is no redeeming this relationship, there is nothing to be won, you're in damage limitation mode now.
Don't delay, the tables can always be very easily turned to portray you as the bad guy (especially if she can prove snooping etc.
Act fast and get your life back on track. Just be thankful it happened now and not in 5 years time.
P.s What a scumbag of a person!
Don't go down the point scoring route, or trying to get even. You'll be playing a dangerous game with a toxic person.
Have a first mover advantage, make an urgent appointment with a solicitor or two, and get proper legal advice.
There is no redeeming this relationship, there is nothing to be won, you're in damage limitation mode now.
Don't delay, the tables can always be very easily turned to portray you as the bad guy (especially if she can prove snooping etc.
Act fast and get your life back on track. Just be thankful it happened now and not in 5 years time.
P.s What a scumbag of a person!
- Joined
- 4 Jan 2013
- Posts
- 3,785
P.s Don't listen to the people here who just want to see a bit of drama, you REALLY need expert legal advice.
It may be shallow but I could never be with someone who abused the English language like that. It's like when I was 15 trying to save money by cutting down the text so it was only a single message not two. That saved me a whole 10p
It may be shallow but I could never be with someone who abused the English language like that. It's like when I was 15 trying to save money by cutting down the text so it was only a single message not two. That saved me a whole 10p
Even then I had standards. They have been well and truly decimated in this instance.
Init brv.
I would advise planing your escape route now. You need to bail out before it gets ugly. In all of this the most important thing is doing right for your daughter. A long drawn out pistols at dawn style separation would have a seriously negative impact on your daughter. So rather than let this fester and ripen into a full fruit of bitterness resentment and revenge start talking now on how to go your separate ways.
When the trust ship sails it never returns to the harbour unless one of you completely mugs yourself off to the other which is not the foundation of a healthy relationship.
TLDR version - get rid of while you can still do so in a controlled manner.
When the trust ship sails it never returns to the harbour unless one of you completely mugs yourself off to the other which is not the foundation of a healthy relationship.
TLDR version - get rid of while you can still do so in a controlled manner.
Absolutely. Wonder if living together full time would take the shine off their affair, grass greener on the other side kinda thing
I don't understand why anyone would have an issue with their partner knowing where they are, I wouldn't care if my GF tracked my phone, infact we have Cerberus installed on both our phones under a single login that we both know, we could track each other if we wished, neither of us care.
