Caporegime
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A lot of talk about 'trust' and 'building trust'.
You might very well be able to scare her off ever doing it again while building up 'trust', but the fact of the matter is that she preferred the company of another man between the sheets than she did the OP. I suspect their marriage was lacking in intimacy as well ... unless she is some kind of complete nympho.
These things are like Neo going into the matrix on multiple occasions. You do it better the next time until you nail it - You can't brow beat a woman into being attracted to you, it just doesn't work that way. There is nothing attractive about a man who wants to 'save' things - Why do you think they like danger and 'bad boys' yet complain about continually hooking up with them. Too many blokes just don't have a clue how to handle a relationship (nobody is perfect, but nobody tells them how any more) ... which is probably a big reason why infidelity is rife among women these days - brains say one thing, but hormones and urges rule the day.
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