Likewise I haven't bothered with BF3 due to it not being on Steam - also a lot of people I know who rushed to it when it came out don't play it any more - a lot of them initially left it for Skyrim which is understandable but most of them haven't gone back once they are done with Skyrim - most of them are bored with it due to needing a good team to really do anything.
You mean they thought BF3 was for rambo players like cod,thats one the best things about BF3 team gameplay it rewards you for doing so..
BF3 look for good servers were admins roam and bookmark em.
mw3 = black ops 2 with slightly better maps.
BF3 for me once all the isues are sorted with crashing.