going about their job?
not doing her job is the issue.
going about their job?
My 2 cents.
Some of the responses here are appaling. If the OP has disabled kids and is trying to get their living arrangements to be suitable for the kids disabilities then I totally understand why the OP is angry and frustrated especially if they have provided all the evidence needed. If this is the case then the email response is belittling, disparaging and disregarding the OPs needs, regardless of if this was an internal or external email. It's effectively saying "sigh look at this email/reponse, take a deep breath before you deal with this ****"
However.....we are missing a load of context. If the op sent an all caps or rage enduced response following being declined or the op isnt providing the right paperwork and they are getting tired of retreading over the same ground over and over then i can 100% udnerstand the attitude in the email.
Problem for them is they now look unprofessional, unsympathetic and lack any understanding, regardless of if they are in the right or wrong for that response. It allows the OP to weaponise this with their seniors, local mp or local newspaper. If i was in the OP's position and I was 100% sure i had provided everything they had asked as evidence, would i weaponise this and take advantage of it... yes of course.
The whole situation sounds far from ideal.
Surely just an email back in this case saying "I don't think this was meant for me. Please ensure that you check who you're sending to..." would suffice? The email is vague at most.
I've asked this before and you ignored me, I'm not sure if it was intentional or not. Do you mind me asking what disabilities your children have (maybe you did mind and that's why you didn't answer!)? I only ask because I have a family member who deals with HA housing, it's already stretched beyond breaking point, and there are varying levels of disability that require very specific housing requirements. It could be the case that they just don't have anything available, or the level of disability doesn't make it top priority. They won't be purposely denying you housing for valid requests. Using an accidentally sent email as leverage to get what you want and potentially deny someone else housing who may require it more seems a little selfish.
If Jaqui dies, maybe you can have her house ?
No, best of luck OP, that email response is out of order, and you know it. No, it won't get you a house if you're not entitled to it, but it might be enough to push you up the list if you are entitled to it and they're just stalling.
100% thank you yes i could have put it all better in context.If people want help/advice, then I'd say it's good to share more information.
The email is unprofessional IMO.. And definitely worth an apology, but not sure it carries any real weight, I guess if you complain enough it might help.
On the whole subject, have you tried CAB?
(https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/b...allowed-an-extra-bedroom-for-housing-benefit/)
Assuming your Children are claiming Middle or Higher Rate DLA then it does seem it's still up to the council to accept your specialists reasoning, this may well be the sticking point, remember that 'specialists' will recommend all sorts to anyone, that does not mean their is an automatic right.
Or if you aren't claiming the middle/higher rate then perhaps as sad as it may seem, you simply don't qualify.
I know councils/social housing struggles under the normal reasons for more bedrooms:
So that also factors in..
DLA is a bit too vague it covers all manner of disabilities. You may not feel comfortable talking about it, but remember, a lot of us have disabled children or disabled family members, it's more common than most people realise.
so i am selfish now too, maybe logout for a bit,Even if it meant others with more legitimate needs may miss out? That doesn't seem selfish?