dating emails : the rules?

[D.P.]

Waiting: How long before you get an email back do you call shenanigans?

1 week

2 weeks?

a month?!

e.g. previous correspondence it has been 2 days max. Then all of a sudden its 5 days. No real reason but shes very sorry.

on end of day 5 with no email back i usually strike them off the list (ie send email saying cheerio). I think its an amazing lack of courtesy and manners.

If you are talking to someone in person or on msn and they suddenly bog off (leave) and return 5 days later saying "ohh sorry bout" that with no explanation would you put up with it?

And this is a general comment but am i the only one annoyed at the lack of manners that "technology" seems to imbue people with. They would not dare be so rude in person but over email or msn etc they dont give a **** ?

I suffered a similar problem recently but she wouldn't even answer her phone. Incredibly rude and weak minded of them.

 

[Monster]

Your writing far too many messages for us to reply to, let alone this poor girl! Give her a bit of a break, if she doesnt reply wait a while and then email her with some news or something (not a wheres my email...email).

 

[Surfer]

she has replied. Supposed to be going out soonish. Though i might cancel and reschedule - but that would be petty wouldnt it?

Maybe its a control thing? If i suggest something she says no and suggests her idea so i say 'no cant do' and offer MY solution. So its like im the one in control...

hrmm yeah i think its a control/ego thing... by me. cheers for the help...

Who needs therapy you guys are great!

 

[Richdog]

I suffered a similar problem recently but she wouldn't even answer her phone. Incredibly rude and weak minded of them.

Weak minded of them? Intewresting way of describing it. From your posts i've sene on the forum D.P. you sound a bit of mixed case in terms of how you are with women, so maybe you should have a think about how you come accross to them, instead of slating them for not responding to you.